me and my gf split up kind of we are on a break she has gone away for a week and we both agreed to talk when she got back.
but im not sure the possablilltys dont lok good no matter wot happens because i was joining the army and she begged me not to go and stay for her (i was top of my class ), so i did but i dont think it was worth it now we had a great time and we both started to fall for each other, but how can she love me if she asked me to give up the life my body was made for just for her i would of done it anyway but she should not have asked im not sure if i shud take her back but i do like her alot ........confused big time
2007-02-19 11:09:37 · 19 answers · asked by kezz247 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw the army will not change me or break me im too stong in will and heart for that to happen not even my ex sgt said it would.
and it feel she hasnt given up anything but i gave up my life the army is the only place other than her where i have been accepted as i am
2007-02-19 11:31:02 · update #1
Well ask yourself this if you are going out with a girl and she is making you decide whats good for your life.. Is that some one you really want to be with?? Don't get me wrong I am sure she is a very nice person.. I think if I had to go through that I wouldn't want to live my life wondering if what would have happened if I did join??Would my life be what I want and be happy? Now you may not get the chance to be happy doing what you want to do..If you do take her back you will be wondering how much control she has over you..
2007-02-19 11:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by charmed4412 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound officially confused. Basically you are wondering if she was worth everything you did for her right? Don't just give up and think that everything is over when you guys are just on a break. I say wait it out until she gets back and try to think things over then. If she doesn't love you anymore than join the army again or whatever will make you happy. That is my advice for your situation figure out what will make you happy, and if having her by your side will then go from there, but if not find another path.
2007-02-19 11:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl should not ask a guy not to do things like not joining the Army. Guys have to do guy things. Girls just do their thing and hopes the guy will pay some attention to her when he gets done. When she comes back, talk with her. If she really likes you, she will accept your decision on what you want to do with your life. You may not like a job she gets. All this is the give and take that life gives you to decide.
2007-02-19 11:19:31 · answer #3 · answered by sally_little03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do whatever makes you the happiest. It seems you love her, but if she loved you as much she'd let you make your own decisions. And why is it that when she leaves for a week she wants a break from you? Where'd she go? I hope you're having fun when she's gone like she's doing!
2007-02-19 11:14:27 · answer #4 · answered by Candi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to remember to put yourself first, no matter what. If she really loves you, she will be there for you when you get back. Otherwise, she just might not be the one for you. I know you like her a lot- but her putting you into a situation like this is just the start of an unhealthy relationship.
2007-02-19 11:16:13 · answer #5 · answered by candy- capped 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this may sound simple. Follow your heart. What ever you feel right now the most is the best answer you will receive. Your heart does not lie. Say a prayer and move on.
2007-02-19 11:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by Ucan2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the move my friend & take her back! You know you're gonna regret it if you don't! If the army thing is a sticker then maybe you could do something army-related that keeps you nearer home & your girl.Good luck!
2007-02-19 14:21:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE grow up and get real.............when was the last time ur dad or mum got pissed of with u?............did they disown u and ask u never to come to their house again?.............that is life man...........there are things that we all disagree about but that doesn't make us fall out for ever............she loves u for u............and the fact that she wants a come back even after u joined the over her objections should tell u that she is real
2007-02-19 11:26:01 · answer #8 · answered by jahblez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really tough moment for you both. She was just afraid of letting you go and probly die. I know the old saying if you really love someone you have to set them free but it was probly a tough moment for her to let you go and never see you again. She killed your dream of protecting this country. Talk to her tell her you have to go if you feel that way, just follow your heart!!
If she wont let you go leave her and go to the army its your life not hers!!!!
2007-02-19 11:32:04 · answer #9 · answered by Pucca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ask her out next friday reason she in all threat be busy all week so attempt the weekend. do no longer ask her out the 1st threat you get reason that could make you appear to be your obsessed. additionally discover out whilst she has no longer something to do on the weekends so which you adult adult males could have a date. If she keeps on turning down on your proposals for a date then she's way too busy for a dating. possibly she in basic terms needs to be acquaintances reason she has no time for having a bf?
2016-09-29 08:32:03 · answer #10 · answered by clawson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋