okay so this girl liked me in 7th and 8th grade. i liked her but we were just friends, and at that time i was too shy to do anything about it, i also kinda liked some1 else at the time. now in high school we never talk anymore and i always catch her looking at me. whenever she walks by me she looks uncomfortable. shes a little shy when i talk to her. sometimes i catch her walking with another person smiling and then looking at me. also it seems like whenever i walk by her, her voice gets louder. she really confuses me. i dont know what to do. she talks to other guys and stuff but i dont see her getting with them, she is close to them to. i really like her and i think im in love. i want to be there for her. how can i tell if she likes me? how can i get her to like me? oh and at dances i see her looking at me, also when im dancing with another girl.
Also i have a myspace tracker and she doesnt view it. does that mean anything?
2007-02-19 11:06:58 · 9 answers · asked by Curious John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is young and immature, the fact that she gets loud when you are around indicates she is showing off and wants you to notice her and what she is doing. If she is talking to a guy and gets loud she wants you to notice, her reasoning may be hey look at me I found someone else, or look at me I want to make you jealous. You are very young and really do not know what love is, do not limit yourself to one girl at this age, go out, have fun, be friends with many girls, who knows by the time you are in high school one of them may develop into your first real love.
2007-02-19 11:12:41 · answer #1 · answered by vivib 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing by her always looking at you and her voice getting louder when you walk past that she is trying to get your attention without putting herself to far out there. If i were you I'd start a convo with her about "stuff" and if she giggles alot she likes you. OR you could just tell her. Whats the worst that can happen? she could say no and have a laugh. It would be forgotten in no time. Just do it! You'll forever wonder if you dont.
2007-02-19 19:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by unoirok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get all sappy and start gushing out all your feelings to her, that'll freak her out and make her feel a little uncomfy, even if she feels the same way. Just make it kinda obvious that you're interested. At the dance don't dance with other chicks, ask her to dance. Tell her little things, like she's pretty, or you like her earrings. Stand close when you're around her, look her in the eyes. And, talk about her, in a good way of course. Tell friends you like her, her friends. Word gets around fast at HS.
2007-02-19 19:18:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what experience I've had in this area, I'd say she's really confused too. All she knows is that she is, for whatever reason, drawn to you. Maybe this means she likes you, maybe she wants to be your friend, maybe she just thinks you're interesting... it goes on and on.
Talk to her. Treat her like a friend. Say hi when you pass her. Then go from there.
2007-02-19 19:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by Mika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey ! , I'm sure you can let out the charming prince you have hidden in there some where, if you really want her to like you back.
Say something like: Oh my gosh ( her name) You still look as beautiful as when I fist met you back in high school!
Remember those old days? Why don't we go out one day to talk about it?
Is it lame? I think it's cool. Try it! Good luck!
2007-02-19 19:13:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,you are in LOVE and i hope u know that but you can as well ell her that u like her i have never seen a guy feeling shy to tell a gal that he likes her just tell her before its too late or if u can't tell ask a friend to do so
2007-02-19 19:15:37 · answer #6 · answered by A2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel! Girls like you to be upfront. Chances are she likes you because it sounds like shes trying to impress you, I've done it before, lol. And does she have a myspace? Is your profile set on private? more details needed. m/b she just doesn't like myspace...
2007-02-19 19:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by scrchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her and try to get her to be confertable with you form what you said she seems like she likes you but you cnat just ask er out you need to get to know eachother more and talk to her on myspace and act like your interested in her she probably likes you but is shy just talk to her
o and how do you get a myspace traker?
thats kool please message me and tell me i will realy appreciate it and if you need any more advice you may message me.
2007-02-19 19:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by Sammie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try calling her up and telling her how you feel. She may think that you don't like her but when she finds out that you do, it will change.
2007-02-19 19:09:48 · answer #9 · answered by Wendy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋