this guy keeps pressuring me into things i dont want to do. im afraid things will get to out of hand...i need help!!
2007-02-19 11:06:53 · 6 answers · asked by robotloserr 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
learn to say no. it would save u someday. not from your bf but from others boss abuser and yourself. don't let it be a connect to your future diaster. no is hard to do but u do it it would bring u a better life. i'm just learning it. good luck
2007-02-19 11:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by john doe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him right away. Don't see him or text him. I met someone like that some weeks ago. He was really intense and pushy and got a bit nasty too when I wouldn't do what he wanted. He wouldn't contact me for a few days each time, then he would be back (when I thought I'd got rid of him). In the end I texted that I was deleting him from my mobile, etc. The next day I phoned a couple of my other men friends who told me to give them his number if I had any more trouble, and they would stop his games. Haven't heard from him since the 12th so keeping my fingers crossed! Just get some back up. You don't HAVE to do anything you don't want.
2007-02-19 19:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by Sandee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know something is not right! Move on, and find another guy, the right one will not pressure you into things you are not ready for; the right one will be able to tell where you are in the relationship, thus he will know how "far" he is able to go before crossing your "comfort line". when in a relationship, you should always be able to speak your mind! if you feel you can't then you need to move on! and always trust your instincts! Stay Safe!
2007-02-19 19:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by JustJen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be afraid to ever say no..... it is your body and no one should be telling you what you should or shouldn't do..... you might just have to stop seeing this boy if he doesn't respect you. You deserve to be respected.
2007-02-19 19:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say No. If they can't appreciate that then move on until you find someone who can.
2007-02-19 19:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by van 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything your not ready for. if he really likes you, hell wait
2007-02-19 19:09:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋