ok..i have a boyfriend, now 3 1/2 months, and i just now started feeling....weird. i sit here and find a bunch of couple icons and make little pictures that say me+him forever with our names and a heart around his name and things like that, and i have never done that before! it's weird! plus i feel soo lonely when i cant talk to him! and it's like every time i see him i just want to hug him or hold his hand! i love him so much, but am i obbsessed? do u think i need to give him space? what do i do?! (by the way i'm in 9th grade)
2007-02-19 11:05:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't get too blind to the point where u will get hurt by your love for him.
I don't think u are obsessed, you feel good about this guy and you express it the way u know how. Just don't overdo it and you will be fine.
However, i advise you not to sit in class or over your school work and day dream and I hope he feels the same way about you.
I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST!!!!!
2007-02-19 11:16:30 · answer #1 · answered by chris19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are feeling pretty normal for a 9th grader.
Actually it still happens when you are older, but you learn to control your energy and emotions as you age. Just try to remember to think before you spew out stuff from your heart without using your mind.
2007-02-19 19:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by happy_southernlady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not being obsessed you just like him a lot. if he starts to look uncomfortable lay back a little. but some guys like the attention ESPECIALLY from there girlfriend. they feel loved and are assured that they're still loved. soo don't lay back unless he looks uncomfortable
good luck :]
2007-02-19 19:10:01 · answer #3 · answered by x3_myz_k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good that ur showin him u like him a lot thats alwayz good but just give him a lil space. u can write his name as much as u want as long as ur not tryin to take up all his time. let him hang wit his friends and u hang with urs but continue to show him u love him
2007-02-19 19:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by dred_loxx_4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i'm from the uk, dunno wot 9th grade is. But this very deep love, i mean if u see him with another a girl it may upset u and get protective about ur bf, and i've seen this b4. its good but u need to loosen up hugging and kissing him too much it may steer in wrong direction. mostly heart breaks so my advice "loosen up".
2007-02-19 19:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you are obbsessed but maybe in love.. dont be too pushy he does need his own time too!! but let him know how you feel!
2007-02-19 19:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by It's a Boy! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself some space. But, there is nothing wrong with what you are feeling. Just don't smother him and don't let him smother you.
2007-02-19 19:09:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him his space..., u better before things get too messy for your age.
2007-02-19 19:12:01 · answer #8 · answered by savage_love777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate you for having a boy friend and myself for not having
one.......... yeah right helping you. your not clingy that's how you should act i suppose, but to test it start backing off of him more and see if he says something about it or does someting because of it and if you want revert back to being clingy...i mean caring.
2007-02-19 19:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by CHRIS S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. i dont think your obsessed hahah im the same way im always afraid the guy i likes thinks im obssed with him but dont worry about it.
2007-02-19 19:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by brit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋