ok i had a bf and he broke up wit me and i went 2 a party and he was there and that was our 1st tyme seeing eachother and he thought i was cute and i thougt he was and his new gf was there and she was looking at me funny cause it is akward when yo ex-gf is there and yo new gf is there.and i like him again and i think he likes me.should i ask him to be my bf again?
2007-02-19 11:01:08 · 21 answers · asked by inuyashawifey_313 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, who initiated the break-up? You or him? If its him, then he most CERTAINLY doesn't deserve you. I mean, think of it... he dumps you and think you're cute? How pathetic is that! =(
If you dumped him, then maybe you should have thought more clearly before doing so, 'cuz it looks like he really is into you. =)
Confused yet? =)
2007-02-19 11:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about how his new girlfriend would feel. Trust me, if you were that girl, you wouldn't want your boyfriend being asked out by another girl and saying yes. I think that you should talk to him about it, and if he confesses that he still has feelings for u, he should dump his girl and get back together w/ u.
On the other hand, right after sum1 dumps sum1 else, they usually still have a few feelings for eachother (after they get over all the anger and sadness) Just let things go, go w/ the flow. Let things happen.
2007-02-19 11:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by yoyoyowatup3579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no... are you addicted to pain or something? What's wrong with you?
Doesn't the fact that he is looking at you while his new gf is around tell you something? He obviously wants to have his cake and eat it too. He wants both of you.
Us guys don't really have a problem with having a dozen girlfriends you see... they're fun to have around and try a new one each day, but if you want to be just "one of them" instead of "the one", then go right ahead and set yourself up for more heartbreak.
2007-02-19 11:07:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tuffy.
You would have to ask why he broke up with you in the first place.
Did he brake up with you to go with her?
What if you truely like him, is it better for him to be with her?
Do you want him for him, or because you just don't want him to be with her?
I know that this isn't what you wanted to hear, but the answer is within you and you must ultimatly make the choice.
Also, remember, God is always there for you.
2007-02-19 11:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Right 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must a young girl but that doesn't matter because if you like him I'm pretty sure that he knows it but, if he has all ready moved on i think that you should do the same because he's not the only bf that you can get and will have.
2007-02-19 11:12:07 · answer #5 · answered by Big Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why did you break up with him in the first place, if you still like him. You saw him with another girl and now you want him back. Wow what a world we live in, you and him should grow up and realize the world doesn't revlove aroun you.
2007-02-19 11:10:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope - wait until he is single and then ask him out - don't be the person that breaks up a couple. You don't want to be the bad guy in this situation.
2007-02-19 11:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by happy_southernlady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't ask him to my bf again if you know he going out with someone else i would wait until he asked me back out.
2007-02-19 11:06:21 · answer #8 · answered by justine s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...well maybe you shouldnt interfere and wait. Because if ur ex really wants to be with you...he will break up with his new gf. Then you will know if he really wants to be with you again.
2007-02-19 11:05:19 · answer #9 · answered by : ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol.. that is shady mama lol. don't ask him anything.. i know where your coming from but, don't make the situation complicated. let him make up his mind as to what he really wants cause if you ask him he might say yes when really he is still feeling his girlfriend and he might end up playing you cause he's still with her. give him time, let him come to you and pop that question. let things be and see where he ends up.
2007-02-19 11:07:34 · answer #10 · answered by Blake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋