Ok my issue is that I am kind of seeing this guy. He works with me and I really like him. He says that he likes me too. The problem is that he has a girlfriend that he lives with. We have been messing around behind her back. I don't konw her. I really like him and I think that I am falling for him. I want to be with him. I wish he didn't have a girlfiend but he does. He calls me everyday and he always wants to see me. But the thing that I don't understand is that it seems like he wants to be with me but he is still with that girl. What should I do???????????????????????
2007-02-19 10:58:38 · 27 answers · asked by Angelgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop messing around with a man who has a girl!
How would you feel if YOU were the girlfriend?
Not good I bet huh?
This guy sounds like a real jerk..
2007-02-19 11:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave him immediately, I wouldn't trust this guy at all, the only reason that he is with you right now is for sex, your just "The Other Girl" But if he does leave his GF and then goes out with you, I would bet my life that he wouldn't hesitate to cheat on you with "Another Woman" Break this fling off, and get over him. You deserve better then this guy. Trust me I can read this guy even though I never seen him before. If not now later in the future he will screw you over, and once he got what he wanted from you, he'll just drop you and wouldn't think twice. Please Believe, it hurts me to see guys treating woman this way, and the woman let's him, and then she is wondering why she didn't see it comeing, and I'm giving you a heads up.
BD
2007-02-19 11:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by Black Dragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one thing you shouldn't be leading him on..think about it, if you were his girlfriend you wouldn't want to find out that your bf is cheating on do you? well ask him if he can live without you, ask him who he likes more..if he says he doesnt know then it's obvioius he likes both of you but is also confused...tell him that you guys should stop whatever your doing behind his girlfriends back because it's not right. if you really liked him you wouldn't make him go through all the trouble of trying to pick between you or his girlfriend..to make it simple stop seeing him it's for his and your own good. i know it's hard but it's right
good luck :]
2007-02-19 11:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by x3_myz_k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only had to read the first two sentences..he lives with someone and you guys are toying around with starting a relationship?! Get a clue let him clean up his mess before you move in. How much respect could he possibly have for you if he's cheating on his live-in with you?!
2007-02-19 11:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is trying to have his cake and eat it too. How long has he been living with her, or is she living with him? And how long have you been seeing him? "Term in office" plays a part, but all in all you are probably being strung along. Chances are, you are not likely to have anything enduring. I would either tone it down and back away slowly from him, or stop cold turkey. He might be nice, but not to loyal. You can do better for yourself. Go find your friends and have some fun. Enjoy yourself and before you know it you will find someone better.
2007-02-19 11:13:46 · answer #5 · answered by TopCatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you messing with a guy who has a girlfriend? How would you feel if you were dating him and he was cheating on you? Not very wonderful, I'll bet.
If he wanted to leave his girlfriend to be with you, he would. He's using both of you.
2007-02-19 11:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from him, love. You will only be causing trouble for all three of you if you don't tell this guy to back off. He has to know that he can't have both of you, and he has to make a choice. And if you're tempted to tip the scales your way, put yourself in the other girl's shoes.
2007-02-19 11:03:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should confront him. Tell him how you feel, and that you don't want him having two girls in his life. Say that if he really cares for you, he will dump that other girl. I think that technically, he's a player. He just wants the pleasure of being w/ 2 girls. But hey, ur young!!!! Don't worry, if he really cares, he'll do the right thing.
2007-02-19 11:03:00 · answer #8 · answered by yoyoyowatup3579 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey face it you are being used he wants his cake w/ icecream on the side if he truely wants to be with you he will break it off with this other girl also do you really want to be with a guy who is a cheat because like it or not that is what he is and his girlfriend most likely doesn' have a clue. if he does it to her he will do it to you. get out before you invest any more of your heart and find someone who wants only you.this guy will break your heart .
2007-02-19 11:02:03 · answer #9 · answered by marie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok i hope this doesnt sound mean but its what i think.. Its girls like you that most girls dont like! If you know he has a girlfriend then leave him alone!! You wouldnt like it if it was the other way around so think about that girl! There is a girl that my boyfriend works with and i think she likes him but i know he loves me too much!! Maybe you should re consider it!!!!!!!
2007-02-19 11:05:14 · answer #10 · answered by It's a Boy! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋