There is this guy that works security at my work. I seem him every once in awhile, and he always flirts with me. So one day I took a chance, asked him out and gave him my number. He said he would call, but never did. The next time I saw him I told him that I was disappointed not to have heard from him. He said he didn't call because the other security guy that he works with has a crush on me, and when he told him we were going to go out the other man didn't want him to. Now, here's the catch...I've never met the other man! We've seen each other, but never met. Guys that I know say that it is possible that he thought I was hot and wanted to get to know me, but I need to know what to do. Honestly, I just want a date, I don't really care who it's with! Should I tell the first guy that I don't care and I still want to go out with him, should I talk to the second guy and ask him out, or should I just forget all about it? I'm so confused!! Thanks in advance for the help!! :)
2007-02-19 10:58:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since neither one of these guys is really tripping your trigger and they aren't clearing room to get to you, it's best to avoid the whole thing. Good luck hon.
By the way, I'm a Las Vegas security guard at the World Market Center.
2007-02-20 09:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did that regularly, like a habit, i might say he replaced right into a jerk. yet whilst that seems to be purely a one time element, he ought to easily have been in a very, relatively undesirable temper. having suggested that, he ought to've basically been joking and teasing you, yet in that situation it would not seem that possibly. in case you relatively need to confirm why, get him on my own and positioned across it up. tell him that he's freaking you out, and you opt for for to appreciate why he's appearing the way he's. you will certainly decide what's incorrect, and if this is you you may substitute it. If this is not you, properly, a minimum of you already know.
2016-10-02 10:12:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find another guy altogether. If you're not attracted to either of these guys specifically, it wouldn't be worth it to start a fight between them. Wait a little bit and see if either of them make a move, but if not, move on. It sounds like you attract guys easily:)
2007-02-19 11:15:12 · answer #3 · answered by harmonardus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guys point of view.....................hot vega............this is an easy one...you expressed your concern for the first guy so go for it...tell this guy that he is who you are interrested in...thats why you asked him out...if you were interrested in the other guy,you would have asked him out instead...see...go for the first guy,first...then if you want to see the other then do that too...but go with your original pick...who knows he may be the mr. right you may be looking for...if the second guy says something then tell him you asked this one out first...be safe...be kind...and i wish you love
2007-02-19 11:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by hystericaly_kinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the first guy, if he says no, then he doenst have the courage needed in a relationship, so try the second guy if you like him.
2007-02-19 11:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never compromise. the the first guy how you feel and if he doesnt call then he must have a girlfriend and doesnt want you to think hes a jerk.
2007-02-19 11:05:19 · answer #6 · answered by 1funnyguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the guy u have ur # to to man up and go out with you.
2007-02-19 11:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Bobby D - The Angels Fan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for who you want. What vibe do you get fro either guy. Go with your feminine intuition.
2007-02-19 11:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cute, shy one that you didn't give your number to you should go for.
2007-02-19 11:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
huh?? i dont get wat ur saying. sorry im not helping.
2007-02-19 11:02:17 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ ♫ lauren ♫ ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋