Me and my girlfriend broke up on stupid thing.....She said that we are spending to much time togheter and she needs some time for herself ( she was telling me that we are not on a break its just she needs time for herself ) unfortunetly i didnt understand that and i got all paranoic about it and she just cracked and said she can't do this anymore ( when i saw that i was stupid and didnt give her space it was to late but i wasnt doing with bad intentions i just loved her so much ) she said because i pressuring her so much and i was overeacting so much detracted from the feelings for me .... and she just said she is done ..... i try to convince her that i was stupid and i understand now and want to make the relationship work but she said its to late ...... so we broke up ...its been 2 weeks since we havent talk or call or message eachother ..... i really love her a lot and i want her back in my life she means everything for me ..... what can i do ....
2007-02-19 10:52:17 · 11 answers · asked by mircea b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it's time to start talking to her again. Start by calling her or asking her if you guys can talk. Maybe things will mend, I hope you the best.
2007-02-19 10:56:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question I just asked was similar...except it has been two months since we have seen each other face to face. I've tried emailing, leaving a phone message, but don't get a reply except on occasion he picks up the phone and he isn't happy with me. I guess I am stalking him, sort of speak. I have to give it up! I sent an e-card a little bit ago. A friends one. Anyway, if I had to do it all over again, I would have just met him once face to face. Found out the story from his side, eye to eye. Eye contact is good...eyes don't lie. Emails lie, im's lie, cards lie, phone messages can lie. So, just stop by and see her, maybe call and say I'm coming over right now. Love hurts sooooo much! I know. Everyone told me to give it up months ago...but I'm a hanger on person. When you invest your time and energy and money into someone...you don't want to brush it off so quickly. She sounds as if you drowned her with too much attention and she didn't have time to clean her own bedroom, take care of her things, do her own creative projects...think for herself. I need my space too even though I am somewhat clingy when in love. So, go "introspect" within yourself, then get cleaned up, give her a call, say you are coming over...bring some flowers and a I'm sorry card and some Victoria secret's lotion in a nice gift bag. 2 for $10 on sale. That should do it. But be romantic. And give her the space next time. Develop a hobby other than her. You will respect you more. and she will respect her more. Peace, brother.
2007-02-19 19:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by rkymtnsnowflake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres not much you can do..Just leave her be I know its hard but you have to. If you said you undersyand and you were being stupid the do what you said "understand" If she loves you she will come back trust me..give her the space she needs and go from there.good luck
2007-02-19 18:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by who knows 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get some good dope growin' equipment to show her that you are a career man. Women just don't take to some guy without a job. Look at me I steal shoppin' carts to fix'em and sell them to opposing grocery stores. I get $18 a cart. .
2007-02-19 18:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by Oscar LeRoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that but shes not that intrested in you. there is probably another guy. Try to talk to her and tell her how you feel about this and then she will realize what she is doing
2007-02-19 18:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going through something like that myself... I think you're done. Give it up. Let it go. Call it a day. Adios, amiga. Find another. Bye byes.
2007-02-19 18:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-18 14:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... i broke a guys heart cuz he was the same way, clingy so i took him back cuz i felt bad but there was another guy and know i am datin the other guy now so just tell her you don't want it to ruin your freindship
2007-02-19 19:15:39 · answer #8 · answered by The Lord is my banner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that you realized too late! Tell her how you feel and let her know your gonna fix the problem!
2007-02-19 18:56:40 · answer #9 · answered by It's a Boy! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooo gosh surprise her show her wat she really means to u now im not sayin marry her im sayin like umm ask her out tell her u want to start from scratch ask her on a date and if she doesn't accept then u tell her u just want to be friends (at least u get to see her)
2007-02-19 18:58:11 · answer #10 · answered by Orlando O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋