Okay didn't get much responses last post, so here goes again
There's this girl i've gotten to know and like.
I tried asking her out for valentines day last week but she mentioned she was getting to know this other guy, though they weren't dating or anything. So i just said it's fine, it's okay.
I don't know if she see's me as just a friend, a person to talk to, or what. But i don't want to be just another friend, and i know she said she's getting to know someone else but she did also say they weren't dating or anything yet.
So is there anything that i can do? I know sometimes when you're already focused on 1 person no one else matters, but then again ppl do get to know others better and see something happen maybe...
So is there anything i can do about it? maybe get closer somehow? stick around incase things don't work out w/ the other guy? even though it might hurt or is it just a hopeless situation right now where no matter what, she'll see me as just a friend because of that guy?
2007-02-19 10:49:44 · 5 answers · asked by CRGuy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also last i talked to her she had mentioned how her "friend" aka the guy i guess, came over to watch movies last week and how she wants to finish her errands today to be free tomorrow cause her friend might come over.
So with all this going on, i don't really know what to think or how to take it, i suppose i could stick close in case the other guy falls out, but it might hurt to hear/think about them meanwhile, but i don't wanna just let it go...
Thus i don't know what to really do so any help/suggestions/advice would be appreciated
Thank You
2007-02-19 10:58:27 · update #1
just because she was talking about mabey being with someone alse or thinking about it dosen't mean you should hide your feelings twards her. I would say something you never know untill you take the chance to talk. what do you have too lose. i am sure it souldn't ruin your friendship. friends don't let things like that ruin a friendship. so what are you waiting for............
2007-02-19 10:59:22 · answer #1 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there's nothing you can do either she thinks of you just as a "friend" or more. It seems like she just likes you as a "friend". Don't wait around for her to change her mind! Go out there and meet some new people..date others! Maybe, when you are too busy doing others things she will realize what she missed out on. However, don't try to make her want to be with you. That makes you look needy and desperate! Don't let the girl use you either. If they know they got you some girls will walk all over you! You deserve better than that. Go find someone who is into you and forget about her. Too many fish in the sea...go and find some.
2007-02-19 18:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she gave you the answer that shes already getting to know someone, im sure thats saying to you that she has no interest in anyone else except that guy right now.
I'd move on until shes available. If she knows you are interested and things dont work out with this other guy, she'll call you when the time is right. It will torture you to see things blossom with the other guy if you stick around and really like her. Dont put yourself through that.
good luck!
2007-02-19 18:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by independent101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should just wait stick around 4 a while give her some time to think about it n maybe then she will give u a chance
2007-02-19 18:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by ~*Princesa_Mexicana*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thinks she maybe leading you and you should just move on.
2007-02-19 18:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by MrS.rEeVeS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋