i like this guy alot and i cant get him off my mind i think about him 24/7 do i LOVE him?
2007-02-19 10:49:10 · 16 answers · asked by angelic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i like my friend alot and he is always on my mind 24/7 i cant stop thinking about him do i LOVE him
2007-02-19 11:12:46 · update #1
Why do you girls confuse lust and love all the freakin' time? Well anyways, no you dont love him. Thats a feeling that the both of you have to share.
2007-02-19 10:52:50 · answer #1 · answered by Danny S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may very well feel love for him. You may feel love toward him. You may even be loving with him. But when you love someone, period, there is absolutely no question in your mind. Love is a special chemistry, and if it is there between yourself and another person there is nothing you can do to take it away. If that special chemistry is not there with the other person, there is absolutely nothing you can do to create it. That chemistry which is real love has to be there already. And I can tell you from having spent almost fifty years with my life partner, when you love someone, you will know it without a question inside every part of you and your question will not show up on Yahoo! Answers. Please have a good week, now. Best to you, always. Chris!
2007-02-19 19:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey here this might answer your question!! This is like a check list...if you see most of these points happening between the both of you then i think it is LOVE :D :D :D
take care :D
LOVE:
Love is patient. The word translated "patient" means to wait patiently for the fulfillment of expectations. When you have diffculty dating this girl and she does not want to come out, if you truly love her, you will not complain and blame her, you must look at the situation from her point of view - maybe she is having some problems which prevented her from coming out. You must react to it with patience and understanding. Next, have you ever met someone you liked so much that you wanted to push the relationship and make it progress faster? Sure you have! Love, however, is willing to give a relationship time to grow at a natural pace. It does not push but is willing to wait for the relationship to grow at a rate that is satisfactory to both parties. Love is Kind. Love seeks to encourage and build up others. It respects the feelings and emotions of others.. It finds its greatest satisfaction in making others happy.
1. Love does not hurt. Physical and/or emotional abuse are not a part of love.
2. Love is not manipulative, it should not be used to get others to do what you want. You should never give in to demands based on the, "You would do it if you loved me!" tactic.
3. Love is an intense feeling of caring for another person. It can take many different forms (romantic, friendly, familial) but it is always about caring.
4. Although it is true that a big part of love is putting another person's happiness ahead of your own this never includes compromising your values or being untrue to yourself.
5. If somebody asks you to do something that you don't want to do in order to "prove" your love they do not love you the way you might think they do. When you love another person you don't ask them to sacrifice a part of themselves in the name of that love.
6. It is very easy to confuse lust for love. The true measure of romantic love is commitment and trust not physical attraction.
7. It is possible to feel romantic love for more than one person at a given time. Just think, if it is possible for you to love both of your parents at the same time why would it be impossible to feel romantic love for two people at once? Don't beat yourself up emotionally if you find yourself in this unhappy situation. But be sure to remain single and be open and honest with all parties about your feelings and confusion.
8. Sex is NOT love. Love is NOT sex. Sex can be a part of romantic love but it is never mandatory.
9. Romantic love can (and often does) fade. When it goes there is not always a reason. When somebody falls out of love with you it does not reflect upon your value as a person or your desirability.
10. Love should make you feel happy, secure and appreciated......................
2007-02-20 00:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by NiceGirlRee;) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep that's a sure sign. I was in the same boat with my friend - now my gf.I liked her & then bam! i was thinking about her all the time - at work, at home, even playing footie!! I missed her being around if she was away.i soon realized that she was the one i wanted to be with.If you don't love a person you don't think of them! Good luck!
2007-02-19 22:25:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-02-19 18:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by meko76 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ZzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzBo-ring.
2007-02-19 18:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yep
2007-02-19 18:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by Puma Academy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u think hes hot, ask him out.
Good luck!!
2007-02-19 18:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know him better.............u might be in love with ur own idea of who he really is..........by getting to know him well through friendship u will either start to forget about him or ur feelings for him would get stronger.........it is then that u will know whether u LOVE him or not
2007-02-19 19:06:28 · answer #9 · answered by jahblez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say your falling for him, but not in love. talk to him or give it some time, may turn out to be just lust.
2007-02-19 18:54:23 · answer #10 · answered by sean_5505 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋