he lives behind me, and I go over to his house a lot. He likes me, but I'm 13 and he's 15. Is there a problem with that, and why? Our parents seem to think that it is wrong. I don't think that there is a problem and even if there was, I wouldn't care, because he is more mature than the guys in my grade, and he is very sweet and funny.
How do I get him alone? When I go over to his house, we are always around our families. If I write him a note, what do I write in it? I would rather talk to him face to face, but I have no idea what to say to him.
2007-02-19 10:34:45 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Super_Colts_Fan♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I go on a walk, can a play the "Oooh, my feet hurt!" card? Would he carry me? Oh and by the way, it feels like -20 outside and there is 2 feet of snow on the ground, I don't think we will be going on walks anytime soon. But thanks anyway. I don't even know how to get him to go on a walk. What do I say? I am very bad at this topic of talking to guys, ecspeacially ♥Robert♥ with his pretty blue eyes, yes BLUE.
2007-02-19 10:45:56 · update #1
well i have to say there is nothing wrong with that. i have seen a 10 year difrence and they are married so there is nothing wrong with the age. to get him alone....... ask him whens the next time his parents are going to leave and i dont think it matters if its a note but it is always better face to face and so theres that solved.
so good luck!!!!
;)
2007-02-19 10:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by jess98gum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First sit down with your mom and dad and let them know the deal say look we are not doing anything wrong we are friends and I think that you guys need to give me a little room, because think about it when you were young and your parents told you not to do something you did it anyways why because they told you no, and then write him a note tell him how you feel and tell him to meet you at the park or somewhere that is close to your guys houses and then you will be alone, but make sure that when you write him that letter to not sound like you are obsessed guys think that is a turn off
2007-02-19 18:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that. 2 years is really no biggy. If he was a year or 2 older then maybe, but i am 15 and i don't see anything wrong with that. You could possibly call him and talk to him on the phone in the privacy of your bedroom and ask him to hang out at the movies or something. Explain to your parents that you really like him and u promise u won't do anything that will lose their trust, and to give u a chance with him. If he was like 17 or 18, i could understand their concern- but like i said, 2 years is really no biggy.
2007-02-19 18:41:46 · answer #3 · answered by yo. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is too old for you. I know you are thinking how can a two year difference matter. Well it does in teenage years. He is going to be able to drive and you just in your first year of being a teenage. And you should care, if he is really mature then he going to want to do mature things that you and him are not ready for. Its a crush and you are going to go through a million of them in your teenage life. Sometimes boys only want what the feel with and I do not mean that comes from the heart. You are 13, why should you worry about dating, you shouldn't even date. You have your whole life ahead to date. I am 19. I been there and I know you are too young for him.
2007-02-19 18:43:49 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its betta if your young my dad is 40 years old my mum is 29 years old so there is no problem with that or maybe sometimes you can talk to him on msn first you have to ask him so have fun :)
2007-02-19 18:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on a walk just with him and then talk to him because you'll be alone.
2007-02-19 18:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i don't think it's a bad idea. Just don't do anything stupid with him. But if your parents say no then just stay friends.
2007-02-19 18:38:17 · answer #7 · answered by Magret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that seen a guy that is only two years older than you is fine. You need to talk to your parents and tell them how you feel about him. You also need to ask him how he feels about you. ok!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-19 18:41:50 · answer #8 · answered by Angelgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, me agreeee. besides, w/ all dat u got, he'll problay end up in rehab. good luck w/ the appocolips.
2007-02-19 18:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by hotbabe101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is fine there is only two years...
2007-02-19 18:41:38 · answer #10 · answered by Savannah Ariel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋