I meet this guy online we both wanted just friendship
after 3rd date we had sex
does that mean we are in a serious relationship ?
2007-02-19 10:32:00 · 18 answers · asked by adf a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear adf a
NO it doesn't. It means you are having SEX
If you are in a relationship with any one the most important thing is communication. He and you communicated you both wanted to be just friends on the Internet.(on line.) He hasn't said anything to change this or you wouldn't be asking. What has he said to change what he wanted. Most young men are happy to have sex and just be friends it is comfortable as you are their friend. One step closer friendship. To women when they say friend it means you are not going to have sex with them you have an other guy you are interested in. Not so with guys. The norm is if we are hanging around you we want sex with you. Why else would we be hanging around you. If you have a date at the movies or at a dance you will never get to know the guy you are with. Your first dates should be walking and talking to each other to find out if you are compatible for a relationship. SEX or MARRIAGE The most important tool you have is to ask questions while you look in his eyes before you have SEX not after. Learn to communicate with who ever you are with. I bet if it was a girl you went out with 3 times you would know much more then with this guy. Learn from your miss takes and enjoy life do not be mad at him for you not knowing his attentions you should have asked before you went to bed not after. Good luck
2007-02-19 11:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by kiss4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it means you two are serious idiots. Slow way down. You need to be very serious and even married before having sex. Is he married/ single/ dating others? How about STD's? Job, past, temperment? The list goes on and on. You are not being smart.
2007-02-19 10:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is best not to assume..if you only have been seeing him for 3 dates then I would think that it is not to serious. I would take it slow and see how he acts after this..you do not want to assume he wants a relationship with you now because he slept with you..it was a mutual adult decision.
2007-02-19 10:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. Sex does not mean you are in a serious relationship and in fact it doesn't even mean you are in a relationship at all.
2007-02-19 10:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, that means you are easy!!! I could see it if you had known him for years and then started dating and then had sex on the third date but, to sleep with someone you met on-line. You probably have caught somethin' ajax won't take off.
So yes, it means your serious.....seriously stupid!!!!!!!!
2007-02-19 10:39:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her enough you will take the risk and won't care what people will think. My mum is twenty years younger than her partner and things have worked out fine :) Your family and friends should respect your decision whatever it is anyway, if you're happy then they should be too. It seems to me like your heart is telling you to go for it but your having doubts because of what others will think... In my opinion you should go for it... you only have one life to live, take the opportunities while you can!
2016-05-24 17:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no absolutely not. i also think you are rushing. take it easy. wait for a while to have sex. who knows he might not be the right guy. when i say wait for a while like a month at least the 7th date. you arent in a serious relationship until you fall deeply in love and he asks you to be engaged.
2007-02-19 10:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by Smart1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No some people are casual about sex and the meaning if sex is different for everyone. Before you have sex you should talk to the person and see how they feel
2007-02-19 10:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by Derick Graham 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It doesn't sound like a serious relationship.
2007-02-19 10:36:04 · answer #9 · answered by CuteCaribChic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, usually sex is pretty significant in a relationship. If you're doubtful about it, you probably have to talk to him and ask him yourself. People see it differently.
2007-02-19 10:34:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋