Does this sort of thing actually happen or is it just a figure of speech? I have heard of relationships where something that has happened at a bachelor or batchelorette party that has called off a wedding, anyone else heard any stories like this?
I think its really wrong and no matter what its still cheating.
2007-02-19 09:18:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I only know one person who actually did this, and although they got married anyway it didn't last. I think if a person is willing to do something this low then they really aren't adult enough to be ready to commit to another person and should call off the wedding.
2007-02-19 09:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rarely ever happens. Most people, because of the cost of weddings these days, wouldn't think of doing anything to mess with the wedding. Don't worry about it. Though I do suggest doing the bachelor/bachelorette party on the same night, during the same time (less stress of worry that way) and DO NOT plan to meet up during that night unless it's after both parties at home alone.
2007-02-19 09:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's bad enough when a couple has decided to become exclusive. But it's worse once the proposal is offered & excepted. You become betrothed, waiting for the legalities of the union by way of a wedding. It should never happen. It's called cheating.
And yes, it has happened, & yes, the marriage has been cancelled. A LOT of broken, untrusting hearts out there.
2007-02-19 11:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I have heard of situations where they do cheat at the bachelor party. Me personally I don't agree with having a stripper at a bachelor party because that is lusting for someone else.
I think you should go out with your friends and have good time and celebrate but keeping it clean.
2007-02-19 09:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by Christina L 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I haven't heard of this actually happening...the sad thing is i could honestly see my sister's fiance doing this, luckily I know my fiance wouldn't do that. I just don't understand how some people think this is acceptable! I would definetly call off the wedding if that happened to me. I know this didn't really answer your question, though...sorry.
2007-02-19 09:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by goaliegirl87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 10:04:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is terrible. If someone is having a last fling there are major issues. There is not celebrating the persons last night of being single, because they arent single!!! They are engaged. He hasn't been a bachelor since you started dating and CERTAINLY has not been one since you were engaged. I am sure it happens but it is disgusting.
2007-02-23 06:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by Sara K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did not have any flings before marriage and neither did my husband. It is unfaithfulness and I would never trust a person who thought it was all right to sleep with somebody before you got married. I would worry that they thought I wasn't everything they wanted.
2007-02-19 09:27:06 · answer #8 · answered by psycho-cook 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a stripper yes . more then a lap dance from the stripper no.
now that is something that just happens to the guy the others hire the stripper and he would be rude to turn it down. he wouldnt be rude to refuse more then dance . bear in mind a private stripper is going to touch but they dont all do more then that.
2007-02-19 09:41:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have not had any of my friends do it, and me nor my husband (i hope) did it.
i think it is incredibly wrong to do it. i dont care if you are not yet married - you have already made that commitment to someone else in the decision to get married, and cheating then is just as bad as cheating during the marriage.
i think that those who have done it are not ready to be married and are not sincere in their commitment to their future wife/husband, and should not be getting married
2007-02-19 09:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by Minerva 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋