Im 17 and she is 15, we went out for 9 months and it ended a few days ago, because she needed a break according to her. She said she loves me still and i love her so dearly, she is my true love. But she has been talkin with my best friend for a few weeks before breaking up and idk what to do. They did date for a month or so before, but she said he broke her heart so much. I was at her house the other day after it happened and she kissed me and we hugged alot and acted partially like nothing happened and it confused me so much. And i treated her to the best of my ability, she also said it was the best 9 months of her life. Did she fall out of love from some fights, or does she want to know if she really loved me by having a break? I think she likes him and she said she loves me, so what am i suppose to do with this?
2007-02-19 07:56:23 · 8 answers · asked by mychal1216km 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is obviously confused about where her heart is right now. Tell her what you said here, and tell her that if she still loves you, that you need some solid proof.
2007-02-19 07:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play hard to get....if you are the type who has a lots of patients and are able to wait...then when she calls or if you see her tell her that you think the idea of "taking a break" is a good idea. She will feel a bit rejected (don't feel badly about it) but she will really think hard and decide what to do about the situation. You have to know how to hit the right nerve. Believe me, once she feels a bit of threat that she may completely lose you, she will be more attentive.
2007-02-19 16:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems confused. Give her a little time to think things through so that she doesnt feel pressured. Then ask her if the time yall spent apart is what she really wants than and only than will you find out if she really loves you. GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-19 16:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by Pumpkin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does she really know what "real love" is at 15???
there are all kinds of love...she (well both of you) are awful young. I don't doubt your feelings, just how deep they run and how long they will last at this age.
only you can figure out the answer to this one...but consider the age
be cool...
2007-02-19 16:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is young, she is confused and she probably wants you and him. She is stringing you a long. Just ignore her and ill bet you have her back in a week.
2007-02-19 16:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by BUFFCHICK25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you might be right...she might still love your best friend still and she just doesnt know it yet......love can be confusing for us alll....but dont worry life goes on
2007-02-19 16:01:50 · answer #6 · answered by ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she is going through a hard time and needs support. if you are there for her when she needs it she will definately choose you ova your friend. i think its you she wants anyway. now please answer my question!
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2007-02-19 16:02:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about her obviously she's a slut so just move on
2007-02-19 16:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by confused emo gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋