i noticed that my bf had a wondering eye... always looking at every woman that passes him.. recently, i got the nerve to confront him about this, telling him that i am very uncomfortable with him staring at other women and he said, well its a bad habit and i'm used to it cuz i was always looking for the right one and i'm now going to stop doing it because i've found you! later that evening he mentioned me having his children.. what do u guys think of this?? ps: he's a good man and treats me well.
2007-02-19 07:54:43 · 14 answers · asked by God's own 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is a healthy man! My husband still looks at other women. That is why he has eyeballs! I look at other guys too. Hey if they are hot I look. Just because his eyes are looking for a moment does't mean he is looking FOR another woman, he is just looking AT another woman.
At this point though, I wouldn't start having kids with him though. Stating that you had to get the nerve to talk to him about something that made you uncomfortable gives me the impression that you aren't ready for that.
2007-02-19 08:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by Question Addict 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy's behavior is very disrespectful and insulting so don't continue in a relationship like this. He needs to put a quick halt to his staring at other women in your presence or you need to give him his "walking papers". By the way, his behavior pattern is not that of a man who is good and treats you well. Honey, wake up and smell the coffee.
Having children with someone like this is totally absurd!!!
2007-02-19 16:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a guy thing, so you have eye's feel free to use them and then they get a little nervous to and then they will learn to not do it so much because it is very annoying. My boyfriend did it at times and I didn't care until one time he thought he was cool with his friends and almost broke his neck to check this one girl out, well he had a nice walk home.......There is looking and then there is embarrassing the **** out of me and being a fool and looking. I was so embarrassed it was the end for us!
2007-02-19 16:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think this is natural male behavior. He's not looking for someone better than you. He's just maybe admiring a woman's shape. What's wrong with that? You could compromise. He can look, but not touch, when you are NOT around.
2007-02-19 16:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by Shelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt worry about it but I would make sure he worked on trying to stop. I mean, its not going to happen over night but eventually it will. My bf had similar problem and Iwas very open about it, if he did it in front of me I just mentioned it and eventually it just stoped.
2007-02-19 16:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by BUFFCHICK25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow..can we not even look anymore. my girlfriend is more understanding she even caught me off guard as she saw i was looking at another girl and she made a game of it. out of nowhere she would go "ooh that girls hot" felt weird but i knew she was playing. it's a guy thing don't dictate him..but have fun wit it.
2007-02-19 16:00:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget having children for him, use your head girl. have you forgot, you are suppose to be married first. And if he is still looking at other girls, he is not ready for a commitment. Think!
2007-02-19 16:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to stop his wondering eye make him wear women;s lingerie (panties) you have the power to do this and he'll not look at another woman again because he'd be embarrassed for her to know he's wearing them How do I know it was done to me and now I wear panties all the time and don't stray
2007-02-19 16:03:03 · answer #8 · answered by tony c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry,,,its very very natural reaction for guys to have a wandering eye...if everything else is ok just look at the girls with him
2007-02-19 15:59:16 · answer #9 · answered by b4i_fku-r-u-18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then meet his kids and see if they are really his, and guys ;look at other girls. trust me. so don't blame him on looking at girls. if he is curious let him be curious. but then if really wants u to meet his kids go. see how he treats them. if he's good with kids then it shouold be good. if you dislike having him having kids *weird* so dump his *** and look for a better man. = ) Good Luck!
2007-02-19 16:01:55 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋