I finally asked him (through a text) if he has a chick because I thought it was weird how he never calls and only texts me. He said that no he doesn't have a girl but that's just how he talks to his friends simply because he feels he can talk better that way. Every month he uses about 9000 texts(isn't that ridiculous?) He also said he gets nervous on the phone like he did with me one of the few times we have spoken on the phone. I mean we have hung out a few times and it's never awkward we get along super awesome and on the phone too we just talk and talk, but i do notice that on the phone and in person he does seem jittery at first, but once he gets comfortable around me he is fine. I don't get how a dude can be so shy to text me every night, hardly ever asks me to hang out, and never calls. What's up with him if he doesn't have a girlfriend, can he really be that shy?
2007-02-19 07:54:24 · 6 answers · asked by no_trabajar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He and you are obviously very young.....stop texting back, but be real warm in person, and maybe he'll want to spend more in person time with you.
2007-02-19 07:58:15 · answer #1 · answered by superbird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a guy friend like that. He would only text me, and never call me. But I didn't have any problem with it. I prefur to text, you don't have any occward silence and you don't have to feel weird or rude when you want to get off the phone. All you do is quit texting. Why don't you just start calling him, he's never gunna feel comforable on the phone if he never talks on it.
*Practice Makes Perfect* =)
2007-02-19 08:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 09:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that he is BS. Either tell him to grow up or stop texting you. If he really wants a relationship with you, he will step up.
2007-02-19 08:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by fashion chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me from a guys piont of veiw he is shy. Trust me i know
2007-02-19 07:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by uncrowned ruler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is a bunch of BS ...Have him call you
2007-02-19 07:57:08 · answer #6 · answered by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋