tell me should i leave him?

Question

i dose everthing for him ,we have kids togetherand all he dose is lies can't trust him.everyone is just friends.tell me and this is year #5

Answer 1

well, if you dont trust him and feel that you need to have that guarantee that he is faithful and nothing else in your relationship seems to be what you want or hoped it would be then its probably best for you to leave him.
Or, Maybe you think too much and are putting way to much thought on weather or not he is being true.
Does he love you? does he show it treat you good and the kids good? Is he so un likeable that it isnt possible for him to have all them as friends? Look I am married (9yrs) am very sociable,have many girls as friends my wife knows they are friends and dont get all wierded out cause they are women.Maybe he lies cause he cant feel he can tell you the truth without you freaking out? Sometimes if you really want to hear the truth you need to be honest and expect you may not like it but need to except it either way.Are you a jelious type of a person? If so, Its hard to be open and honest with someone who is cause jelious poeple are very easily afended and hard to reason with.So, alot of times cause alot of their own demise in a relationship.
If you love him,want him and wish to make it work,stop trying to run and stop being afraid of "what ifs".If someone wants to cheat,they will. That means they will no matter weather you want them to or not or find out about it or not,if they want it they will find a way to do it no matter what.No sense worrying about things you cant control.And if you think he has and you cant live with the demons of that in your head then move on cause you will drive yourself crazy.Or, trust him regardless,dont think about what isnt truth slapped right in your face and maybe by giving the trust things will get better and closer between you.
Only way to know is try.or give up and that is up to you to decide.

Answer 2

Since you have children together you need to take some serious time to try and straighten this relationship out if possible. Realize you guys both need to compromise. Tell him that you are willing to comprise to make the relationship better because it means that much to you ask if he is willing to compromise as well. First step, calmly and without arguing explain to him you want to go to relationship counseling. If he refuses then he doesn't respect you or your relationship. Frankly, based on your question, he has no respect for you he doesn't seem to give you the respect anyone deserves in a relationship by always being the "taker" and never being the "giver". People only treat you how you allow them to treat you so start standing up for yourself and show him that kind of behavior won't be tolerated by you anymore! It isn't ALWAYS better to stay together for the children. If children grow up in a home where the mother isn't being respected in a relationship than that's how they think a normal relationship is and when they get older and start to form relationships they'll think it's ok for someone to treat them like that also without a strong role model to show them that it is not ok.

Answer 3

I can't give u my complete opinion because I don't know the full story. I would like to let u know that it's going to go on as long as u let it go on. The problem with us women is that we fail to realize that we have just as much say so as a man. They're suppose to be our companions not our daddies. It' seems like u have put a lot into the relationship(your children), so make sure u are sure and not just being insecure. Plus, taking care of home will keep u from worring; doing ur job will leaves no room for another female.

Answer 4

I think you know the ansewer. Its always tough to go into the unknown and the grass may not be greener.

But when you know the realtionship is unhealthy and you feel like you are the only person on the sea saw then you should go.

Just do it in steps instead of tackling everything at once.

Answer 5

Leave him. Just adding to the thousands that I'm sure will have told you that by the time I've finished typing this message...xx

Answer 6

Sorry, but if you speak the same way you spell, I'd not want to be around you either.
Go back, finish 8th grade, see what happens.

Answer 7

A relationship has to make both of you happy, not just him.

Answer 8

ummmmm if a boy is like lying to u and u still go out with him he is still going to lie to u. i think u should break up with him.

Answer 9

If you have to ask, you already know the answer is YES!

Answer 10

U ANSWERED THE ?, Y STAY WITH A LIAR GIRL IMAGINE WHAT U WILL HAVE W/O HIM