ok... there is this guy that i like and everyone says he likes me back. he is realy shy and i cant figure out wether he does or not.. here are some of the things he does:
he looks at me ALL the time, and then smiles and looks away.
he talks about me to his friends (my friend ova heard him)
when people ask him wether he likes me he goes "no, ummm no, why do you think that" he stutters ans goes red at the same time.
we arent in the same class so we dont talk anymore, we are both fourteen and a half and both shy. what do you think?
2007-02-19 07:51:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i REALY do like him and i want to go out with him but im to shy to say anything.... how can i show him i like him with out actually talking to him???
2007-02-19 08:09:45 · update #1
Wow, this sounds familiar. I remember being just like that.
If he's looking and smiling at you, that's a pretty sure sign that he likes you.
He says "no" and turns red because he's shy and doesn't want you to know. Because if you know then that means you'll have to let him know if you like him back, and that means a possibility for rejection. That's why he doesn't want people to know, especially you. He's afraid of being embarrassed.
Despite people's better judgment, fear is sometimes a more powerful motivator than we'd like to admit, I know I'd never admit that when I was 14, heck my first relationship wasn't until I was 16 and those were some very quiet conversations because we were both very shy. I was so nervous that I would freeze up a lot, even when I got compliments from her.
Unfortunately, nothing will probably happen unless somebody says something. That somebody might have to be a friend of yours or his if neither of you say anything to the other.
If you want to try to convey to him that you like him, try doing what he does. Look at and smile at him (make sure he sees you) and/or let his friends over hear you talking about him. This might give him the confidence to say something.
Just keep in mind find that he's afraid, and that you too are obviously afraid, otherwise you would've said something to him. Just relax and I hope things work out for you two.
2007-02-19 08:43:13 · answer #1 · answered by CR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way when i talked to my old girlfriend i did the same thing he does actually to her face, but i finally gained enough confidence that she liked me and wasn't just pulling my leg i asked her out and it was the greatest experience of my life.
2007-02-19 08:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by mychal1216km 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same boat right now as being shy! & I am older by years I think i am half the problem
2007-02-19 08:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE LIKES YOU
so go up to him and start talking to him! ask him how his day was, give him a hug, etc.
if you don't want him to like you then be really mean to him. or if you just don't want to go out with him then keep ignoring him, act like you don't know he likes you, like he's just a random guy in your school. although taking these two steps would make a lot of people think you're mean and "not worth it". either way it seems like many people at your school know that he likes you. so you have to go deal with it sooner or later.
2007-02-19 07:59:19 · answer #4 · answered by pitachips3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to target to study with him in individual first and then you will be able to textual content him "whats up" later that day or the subsequent day and initiate talking that way you've already accepted a connection and so that is not any longer awkward once you textual content him.
2016-12-04 09:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my past i have wrote a letter then waited to see if i got a reply but give it a wk or 2 in no response then move on Good luck
2007-02-19 13:00:33 · answer #6 · answered by larry C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you for sure. Why don't you pull him to the side and tell him that you think he's cute. After that, it's on him to make the move. Good luck girly.
2007-02-19 07:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by Meeeeee! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! ask him out! of course he likes you. you and me are in the same boat!So if you like him just ask him out and get it over with.
2007-02-19 07:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Kitsune♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask the kid out my friend had the same problem and it worked hope that helps
2007-02-19 08:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by jim s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... Only one word can say it..:(
LOVE ^^
Good Luck!
2007-02-19 07:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by Sakuraღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋