Okay well ive been in a realtionship about 4 months (it made 4 months on valentines day) and im14 and he's 15 plus we grew up togther and plus we argue som he times. But he does because he says he likes to here me or see me get mad. Moreover, he dosent take certain things serious that are reallu suppose to be serious. And he says that he loves me and dosent know what he would do if he lose me or i get hurt. But i believe it but i dont because sometimes he dosent take things serious. What should i do if we love each other very much and do you think he will change his ways if he loves me.
2007-02-19 07:49:09 · 10 answers · asked by Ashley P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry honey, at your age you don't know what love is...only infatuation. Here is life lesson #1: no man will change for you or anybody else
2007-02-19 07:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not doubting your feelings...but look at your age...I mean really look at it...you have not even finished high school. you will be surprised how much you will change as a person between 15 and 18...really amazing the changes as a person you will go through. He might not even be a part of the equation by the time you are a senior in high school...enjoy your youth...it is gone before you know it
4 months in the grand scheme of things is not a long time. have you ever considered that he is too young to be too serious about things?
again, not dogging your age...just saying think about things...try to look to the future...do you really see yourself where you are right now in say 5 years?
I don't have the answers...these are decisions you have to make for yourself for your life
I am just trying to get you to consider the "whole" picture.
be cool...
2007-02-19 15:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is 15 and you are 14 then neither one of you know what true love is. It is way too early in your life to be hooked to just one guy. Play the field. If he don't take you serious it is because he is still just a kid and don't know how to be serious. Life is too short for you to grow up too quick. Slow down and live a little.
2007-02-19 15:56:07 · answer #3 · answered by irishlady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the way some guys actually doing when they cannot truly control their feelings. Those antics of guys seems positive to some girls and some are not. So, it is within you to conclude if you really love him, then, try to understand his actions and slowly try to teach him the basics or ethics of loving a girl.
I think he's not mature enough for loving a girl like you. Childish acts for childish love.
2007-02-19 15:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by FX777222999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys are young and have your whole lives ahead of you... when i was your age i screwed up my life because i thought i loved this guy we were dating for 3 years and were totaly in love (or so we thought we were young... your age when we started dating) we got too serious and had sex... i ended up pregnant. sometimes its best for you not to be serious about everything. remember... your young and teen pregnancy IS NOT fun so stay away from the sex and just relax a bit loosen up dont be so serious.
2007-02-19 15:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya, tell him that you think that he should be more serious about things and has to learn how to joke around in certain times. so i hope it works out of you two. GOOD LUCK= )
2007-02-19 15:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes! your 14! just chill out for awhile. I am willing to bet that if you just ignore his immaturity that he will start taking things more serious.
2007-02-19 15:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by BUFFCHICK25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will probaly fall in love more than once in your life you still have a lot of years to love get out and sdate other people if he really loves you then he won't go anywhere
2007-02-19 15:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by shorty290402 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's 15 years old, he's not done growing up.
2007-02-19 15:52:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
threaten to dump him if he doesnt change. he'll fall to your feet.
2007-02-19 15:53:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋