i called this guy i have been crushin on for a year now, and i told him he was"eating me alive", he said the attraction was mutual and he had no idea i felt that way.He said he has been seeing someone for a month now so i told him to tell me to give up and he said no he cant because im so beautiful. So what am i suppose to do now?
2007-02-19 07:46:00 · 13 answers · asked by kerri r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
R-U-N like mad in the opposite direction. Believe me, there's nothing like feeding a guy's ego and that is what you have done. He'll keep you hanging on as "back-up" till you and he are both 90 yrs old or older.
Seriously, let it go. If he becomes single (and make sure that he is) then take a chance. Don't be a "hang-on".
2007-02-19 07:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by Slim Shady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your age would really help us answer this question, like many of the singles questions....since different answers would apply to different ages....
I'll bet HE is confused now...he's got two ladies interested in him, and he obviously likes both. Time will determine who becomes the long term romance and who remains, hopefully, a friend.....I'm a bit concerned that he only mentioned your beauty, and not the WHOLE YOU>>>>>>
2007-02-19 15:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by superbird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he really likes you, give him some time and he will probably leave the other girl for you, it depends on how serious he is with her. Keep talking to him but don't pressure him, the only thing you need to be careful of is being considered the "other woman"
2007-02-19 15:51:58 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's only been with this person a month, he should actually be able toi make a decision as to what he wants to do. Indecisiveness can bea sign of selfishness, I'd move on if I were you.
2007-02-19 15:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by J.C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ball is in his court not yours. There is nothing you can do. If you force him to break up with the other girl it might cause comotion. He will have to decide for himself who he wants to be with more. I wouldn't push him into any decisions or it might backfire on you some day.
2007-02-19 15:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by whatever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok i well tell you GIVE UP there i said it for him does that count. Know will you try an feel better an move on. stop thinking about him. Have fun.
2007-02-19 15:54:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u guys should see each other as frends for sometime...cuz beauty is not everything,and obviously u dont wanna be that guys one night stand,so i think u guys should spend some time together,get to know each other better..
2007-02-19 15:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by gunsnrozezz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be calm, composed & mature to have a nice chat on your future with him in details.
2007-02-19 15:50:39 · answer #8 · answered by Goosters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a guy or a girl
if your a girl he might be a stocker bee carerful
2007-02-19 15:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by patrick m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mingle w/o him noticing. ruin his gf's life. then go out with him.m/o with him in front of her w/o him noticing and shell defintely break up w/him.
2007-02-19 15:49:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋