My ex-boyfriend dumped me one year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. He’s 26 while I’m 21. During this year, even though HE ended it, HE would still say hi to me on msn, although he never asked me to go out until now. I said yes, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home. On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hug, & hold hands, it was a pure & beautiful thing. After our li’ meetup he went on vacation. He came back & I asked him on msn about his trip. I haven’t talk to him in 1 month & he hasn’t said hi to me at all on msn. WHY did he call me & wanna see me? Was it just so he could get closure? After a year, does he still have some feelings?
2007-02-19 07:42:41 · 6 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably thought that he still had feelings for you and he wanted to go out with you one last time to see if he really still did have feelings for you or not.
2007-02-19 07:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by butterflybaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he is testing out a number of relationships. Obviously he is interested in maintaining (up to a point) a friendship with you but it is difficult to know to what extent he has feeling for you. If you want to get to know him better and are interested, you might try planning an outing some time and invite him. Keep it equally casual. Perhaps he needs more encouragement from you or maybe it is a lost cause. Only time will tell.
2007-02-19 16:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy needs a push to court a lady like you. It seems that he has a feeling for you after all. Because, when a guy doesn't have a feeling for you, he won't contact you forever. Moreover, I think you have a special feeling for him, too.
Try your very best to understand him and make a move to know him so well. Be ready for yourself always and don't get caught redhanded.
2007-02-19 15:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by FX777222999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he still has feeling for you. He may just enjoy your company as a friend. If a guy has feeling for you, he should be after you as soon as he gets a chance or free time, otherwise he is just looking for a friendship.
2007-02-19 15:50:45 · answer #4 · answered by JL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only he can answer the questions that you are asking. It sounds to me like all he wants is to be friends.
2007-02-19 15:50:38 · answer #5 · answered by irishlady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE STOP IT ALREADY - PLEASE
2007-02-19 15:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋