First, forget about meeting women. Just remove that from your whole view on life for the moment. THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT.
Then, find stuff that makes you happy and excited and energetic, and go do it. Write a list of what gets you pumped and then go do it.
Then after you do that, you will be confident, happy, interesting, and more outgoing. THEN you will "have game" and be able to meet women.
It's kind of a paradox. To start meeting women, forget about them, and focus on yourself, and then they'll start appearing...
2007-02-19 07:54:44
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answered by pitachips3 2
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First of all, DON'T play games cuz they catch up with you later & never have a positive outcome. Go places where girls hangout, even if you're not interested in the activity, including Shopping malls with clothing stores, jewelry stores, makeup stores & pet shops. Don't hide yourself inside stores among shelves & racks or get side tracked in a place of your own interest, stay in the open. Don't be afraid to let a girl see you looking at her, make eye contact 2-3 times, smiling & if she doesn't make the first move, approach her & say soemthing like "I apologize for being rude by staring but you look like someone I'd like to get to know! Would you & your friends want to have a soda with me?". Don't worry about rejection, it only hurts for a little while! If all else fails, have a Tee shirt made that says "single but negotialble" on it, THEN go hang out where the girls are!
2007-02-19 15:53:27
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answered by SmallVoiceInBigWorld 6
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Its not about game. I hate when guys think that thats what gets them girls. Just be nice to them. Also be outgoing and be fun. You don't need pick up lines or good dance skills or whatever else. Seriously, i'm tired of guys trying to be such 'gamers'
2007-02-19 15:48:03
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answered by lovely lovely 3
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go to the YMCA! my friend and i used to spend hours down at the hot tub and pools picking up on girls. dont worry about what you'll make yourself look like. be outgoing...girls like them the most. and dont worry if you mess up...chances are you'll never likely see them again.
2007-02-19 15:47:17
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answered by Love Doctor 4
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go to a club with some confident male or female friends... this always works!!!!!
2007-02-19 15:44:48
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answered by Saritah Bonita 2
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