I am friends with this guy that I've known for awhile. I hang out with him and 2 other guys everyday. All of our friends think something is going on. I know that he likes me but when I asked him if he was looking for a relationship he said that he's not sure if he is ready to commit. He doesn't want to find out that 2 weeks from now he doesn't want a relationship. But everytime I start talking to another guy he gets jealous. Is it worth hanging around or should I move on?
2007-02-19 07:40:40 · 7 answers · asked by nicole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you listening? He's telling you he doesn't know if he's ready to commit. I wouldn't waste my time on someone who isn't sure of himself...find someone who knows what he wants....you'll be much more successful going down that path.
2007-02-19 07:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by aak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously this guy wants to remain friends with you but he is not ready for a serious relationship at this time. His feelings for you might be more than he's willing to admit but it takes a very wise person to realize that romance is not for him until he is ready and willing to commit. Please don't ever pressure anyone into being closer to you because that would only cause an unpleasant resentful situation later, and neither of you needs that. If you want to be his friend you must accept his feelings, but if you aren't willing to do this you might need to part company for awhile.
2007-02-19 15:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.k now if this man do not want to be with you then move on give it time and he will get his self together when he see you with others then the question will come together for you and him to get together and then see how far that it will go. so let go and let flow.
2007-02-19 15:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by Little short person 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on i think he just want to use you and as he said he not ready to commit so move on
2007-02-19 15:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on he just want to have his cake and eat it to. he probably doesn't plan on having any commitment to you
2007-02-19 15:48:57 · answer #5 · answered by shorty290402 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants it all. He wants you but wants to make no promises. Really, can you live with that????
2007-02-19 15:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about being friends with benefits??? you willing to put out for him???
2007-02-19 15:44:17 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋