How can I get over him and get him out of my mind after choosing to end contact with him?? Please help me someone as I am struggling.
2007-02-19 07:30:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find someone else and quick!
Im available!!!
2007-02-19 07:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by British & Proud Of It 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first off stop using words like rogue, if he's a convict, say so. rogue has a kind of romantic fantasy to it and women love fantasy when it comes to romance, so take the fantasy out and he won't seem so apealing, so what makes this guy a "rogue" is it because he's a convict who has commited violent crimes? or is he just a plain old douchebag as.shole? see it's easy to forget an as.shole isn't it? but seriously, i've never in my life heard anyone use the word rogue to describe a human being. be more realistic and life will be easier to deal with, hiding the meanings of words will only sheild you from the truth. rogue, seriously what the fu.ck is wrong with you.
2007-02-19 15:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by nightmare_gorilla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to trust your instincts and if he's a rogue and you ended it, you sound as though you have enough sense to know that you deserve better. Nobody HAS to have a rogue. There are just too many good men out there going unnoticed because girls like bad boys and take the good ones for granted.
Move on.... you're worth it!
2007-02-19 15:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on why it ended. Take it one day at a time. Remind yourself that every day that passes is a day closer to being happy again. Do things that are productive {more work} or that make you feel good that aren't self destructive {writing poetry NOT drinking vodka for breakfast!}
Go out with some friends, and don't be afraid to ask for help from them.
Good luck, I've been through it, and its the pits. Good luck.
2007-02-19 15:37:16 · answer #4 · answered by deucelow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay strong for a start! Keep yourself busy doing other things, like going out with your mates! Delete his number from your phone so your not tempted either. Time is a great healer and I promise it will get easier, especially if you meet someone else to take your mind off him!
2007-02-19 15:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by Chezza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you leaving him is the real question. if you are in love with him tell him the truth when u cut contact. if he's in love with you too he may behave him self. but if he says "ill be good" then just be friends so he can prove it. for a while. and to help you keep him out of your mind, date and hang out with your friends a bit more often. but remember you still will have to face your feelings when you go to bed alone at night. remember that your doing the best thing... takin care of yourself and him.
2007-02-19 15:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by lfis492aa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a race, we've been getting involved with the wrong person for thousands of years.. What attracts you isnt' always' what's good for you.. Get a better understanding of what you want and desire in life.. and what will make you happiest.. Sometimes that takes years..
2007-02-19 15:35:47 · answer #7 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understand what happened, Find someone to talk to.Find other interests.Enjoy life it doesn't have to be so tuff.
2007-02-19 15:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find a stray dog and he will be gone from you mind.
2007-02-19 15:33:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
stay strong b21, if thats what you want, i like a bit of a bad boy!
2007-02-19 15:41:34 · answer #10 · answered by honey xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋