2007-02-19 07:26:28 · 37 answers · asked by angel_baby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what is it? dont be a rookie
2007-02-19 07:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by b4i_fku-r-u-18 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the right thing to do is find a new BF because if you dont want to do it dont do something your comfortable doing because whatever it is it is going to be in your head and then your going to have to say something to somebody. And just follow what your brain say.
2007-02-19 07:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by Ray-ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Peer pressure can be such a drag. Don't given in to anything, even if it's the slightest mistake that could get you into a major problem. Never give in, always look on the outside and try not make your boyfriend look cooler for his own sake so he could tell it to his friends later.
2007-02-19 07:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by Chris B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem. Tell him bluntly. No. If that doesn't work...tell him no again and explain your reasoning. And if that still doesn't work, break up with him. It gets to the point when all they talk about is what you don't want to do and it stresses you out because you feel like they aren't happy when you are around. If he doesn't understand by the second time, forget about him.
2007-02-19 07:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it that he is trying to get u to do? Ask him first if u need clarification and if u don't think there is anything morally wrong or wouldn't endanger u in anyway.. then I guess should be OK. But ya, bottom line is u shouldn't be forced to do things u dont wanna to do.
2007-02-19 07:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by Ichigo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to say no because you think he'll think your weird then that nonsence. If he is making you do things that you don't like then get away from him. Find someone that likes you for who you are and waht you seem safe with. Good Luck! and make the right, smart choice.
2007-02-19 07:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by whats_upp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm i would say it depends on what it is. but to answer you in general, your bf is NEW and trying to get you to do things you don' twant to do.... shows me that he's possibly using you and/or not really serious about being with you. i dont have enough info to give you more direct advice but if i were you i'd slow it down or leave.
let me know more info cause maybe it's not a big deal but i don't know what's going on.
2007-02-19 07:33:11 · answer #7 · answered by lfis492aa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would walk away from the relationship right away. Any person who tries to get you to do things you don't want to do is controlling. You don'd stand to gain anything from this guy. Leave. Good luck to you.
2007-02-19 07:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by Wendy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No good boyfriend will pressure you to do something that you don't want to do. Have you told him you don't want to? strongly told him? If he continues to pressure then definitely find a new guy!
2007-02-19 07:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never do anything that ur not comfortable or don't want to do. even if it's ur boyfriend. if he's pressuring you he's not a good boyfriend at all. let him know that ur not comfortable with whatever he wants u to do. and if he doesn't like it. hit the road jack.
2007-02-19 07:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by prchik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't want to do it and if he has a problem with it then he really isnt a good guy to keep around!
2007-02-19 07:30:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋