My parents are arguing everyday- how can I end this?

Question

...They only fight cuz my mom is acting as a temporary counselor for my crazy uncle...

Answer 1

You can't. It's a grown-up thing. You have to let them deal with it.

Answer 2

You need to talk to them about their fighting. While you may not be able to stop them from arguing, you can make them aware that their fighting is affecting you and maybe they will tone it down or not fight while you are around. Fighting is normal for couples as long is it does not happen all the time. Maybe they're not aware of how bad it has gotten.

Answer 3

Maybe if you get involved, not continue arguing, but actually try to be constructive and talk to them about how to solve their problems, then maybe they'll understand that even the younger one understands what's really going on. It will make them feel more like little children to fight over something that a younger one can solve.

Answer 4

You can tell them how much it bothers you to hear them fighting. Ask if they are going to argue to do it when you are not around.

**Have a daughter that approached me and her father about this. Trust me, it worked. We realized that our arguing affected her more than we took notice to. Things are better now because of her courage to confront us about it. And believe it or not, her father and I are getting along better as well.

Just talk to them. It may or may not help, but at least they will know how you feel. Good luck.

Answer 5

You're grown up already. You have to talk to them and tell them what you felt about this problem that you got affected by this. It is not too late to help ...instead they will end up of divorce, which is you don't like it very much. Or you you have set up them...to have a romantic dinner. Try everything what you think to make them close again.

Answer 6

YOU cant do anything about your parents arguing. Only they can, they need to learn how to communicate without yelling or arguing, maybe you can just sit down with them and guide them through a conversation, when ever they start to get upset then you be the one who lets them see that they are getting loud and maybe that will teach them to comunicate properly.

Answer 7

Lovely Lady? Grown-Ups, have things to do. that you don't understand. I'd vote for you to stay away from that. And show your Love for the both of `em. If it upsets You? I'd let them know that. But don't try to change what they're doing. it can only be worse for everyone. Good Luck, Little One!

Answer 8

I don't know that YOU can end it.....what you might be able to do is ask them to have their discussion somewhere else, out of your earshot....(because they're talking about adult issues, and sometimes those are very complex...).

You might also try removing yourself from earshot of their conversation...can you go to a friend's house while they're talking? To another room? Wear earplugs?

Just because it's their conversation doesn't mean that it's OK for you to hear it!

Good luck!

Answer 9

The other answerer is correct. All you can do is talk to your parents and let them know their fighting is bothering you. Leave it to them to work out the issues.
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Answer 10

Honey, talk to your mom and tell how you feel and how their fighting is affecting you. I bet she will understand.

Answer 11

tell them that from the outside it is really annoying. make them see that it does no one any good and it disturbs you. fighting is a great source of stress