I still have strong urges to visit my daughter's resting place every week three years after?

Question

It is a 200 mile roundtrip. I do go during the week and week-ends not all the time

Answer 1

I think that's great! She knows when you are there. I am sure it makes you feel good to go there and talk to her. I think you should continue going.

Answer 2

Do what you need to do... They say losing a child is the hardest thing a parent will ever do.

You may want to see a grief counselor. They may have ideas on how to remember your daughter without traveling every week.

Answer 3

I dont see a problem with visiting her but maybe dont go as often since the distance is so great. Do what you feel makes you happy and/or comfortable. Sorry for your loss. Good Luck.

Answer 4

if it makes u happy go ahead, then think of the mothers of runaways that dont get a chance to even know where their daughters were buried r even have a chance to place them in resting places so they can visit when they want. if thats what u like go ahead and Thank GOD

Answer 5

there is nothing wrong with that. you miss her. nothing weird at all. so what if its 200 miles did you say? that shows that you still care. when i die i hope everyone comes daily to my resting place just to remember me . i go to my grandmas often enough and i didnt even know her. im sure that your daughter is ok wherever she is and im sure she is proud of you .i would be. god bless. beccy xx

Answer 6

There is no exact period of time to mourn. Its your daughter and only u know when it's time. Question: Would u want someone to forget about u?

Answer 7

There is nothing wrong with that. Whether you are at her grave site or at your house/job...she is always with you, and feels blessed that she meant so much to you.