I have liked this guy since the 5th grade. We were really good friends and I was somewhat his confidante. We always talked. Then when we got to middle school we barely talked to each other anymore. I am now in the 8th grade and I still like him a lot. People said he always had a "thing" for me. I don't know how to show him I still have interest! We have a lot in common and I know his interests: basketball, drawing, music and I also do those things. He doesn't have a girlfriend, so how do I connect with him again? We barely talk anymore! I REALLY like him! We had a connection and he said in 5th grade that I was someone he could always talk to about his problems! I don't know how to flirt with him or anything!!! HELP!!!
How do I get his attention? How do I flirt with him?
2007-02-19 07:07:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi. i have the same problem. you should just go up to him and start a conversation and mention the fact that you havent spoken for ages. chances are that he wants to talk to you he has just become more shy as he got older. seriously just relax and go and talk to him...i would do that but i am the verryyy shy type.
lol. jess
2007-02-19 07:16:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get his attention first. Wear something stylish, do your hair and makeup stylishly and stand out to get his attention. And keep smiling, look at him directly in the eye. Try to "bump" into him or go somehwere that he's going. If there's a party that he's going to, go there and be sure to look really good, catch his eye and smile all the time and even flirt. You should drop your books or something (lmao) near him and get talking! ALSO, you're so lucky that you know his interests! You should join an art class with him no matter how good or bad you are, or join a music club or something to let him know that it's fate and that you seem to be everywhere, including on his mind.
This sounds exciting stuff, good luck and tell us how it goes! =]]
2007-02-19 15:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety you are very young. I won't tell you to forget about boys cuz thats part of growing up. BUT, from my experience men are complicated and then again they are too simple... try to be his friend again. Say hello, ask him about a homework, talk to him about a movie ect ect. Now, don't humiliate yourself by flurting with him or making out with another guy so that he pays attention to you. That will make matters worst.
2007-02-19 15:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by EV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-sigh- i know its sucks to have this problem i have it right now. the guy only looks and thats it (he doesn't stare as much)
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he has been doing this for about 2 years. we have never said a word to each other. so i cant help. =Y
2007-02-19 15:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple but true,just be honoust stop wasting your precious time and go to him and simply tell him how you feel.....i know it is easier said than done,take it from a guy,you should just do it guys like to see someone who know what they want!!!
Anton South Africa
2007-02-19 15:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by volley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smile at him. talk with him. complement him. get him to notice u by doing small things for him!!!
2007-02-19 15:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋