i didnt know that he was still with that girl really, i didnt know they had a kid,, and the girl went to my work and screamed at me!! she also called at home and told all my relatives about it!! she also posted some horrible things on the internet about me!! i really want to do something to the girl and the guy! what am i gonna do???
2007-02-19 07:07:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you want to get even. She already is with a loser isn't that punishment enough. Stay away and find someone new.
2007-02-19 07:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the guy didnt tell you he was still involved with her. if he didnt, you know what honestly I wouldnt even worry about it. Because I have been told that a empty can makes alot of noise. She embarassed herself more than she embarassed you. Plus, revenge is best served cold, meaning when they think you have forgotten about and let it pass but the whole time you are scheming to get them back. You see if it was me when i was younger than what I would have done was ignoredher totally when she was talking to me. then i would have waited awhile and if me n the guy are still on good terms i would start talking to him again just acting as if none of that bothered me then I would have enticed him later down the line and video record him or left some panties in his house with a note attached for her like nah! bytch dont sleep on me, because next time your man willbe sleeping with me. another way if you kno something about them like they are active drug users or u know when they left a party drunk and call the police onthem like theres someone driving drunk on this street in this kinda of car. Call a tow truck and say you need you car towed to a different city but you will be talking about his car and have his car towed somewhere far out. If you knew him well and had his ss# apply for credit cards in his name and run it up. Or just be a lady and say screw them both they deserve each other. and if she comes back up to your job call the police on her and start making out a police report everytime she or both of them physically or verbally threaten you get a restraining order against them and if next time its physical you have clear cause to slice they a%^
2007-02-19 15:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by FauxDr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get even! Take the high road.. What comes around goes around. If you get caught up.... it could get even nastier.. This is only a small glitch in your life.. Get over it.... You should have maybe been given a chance to explain you didn't know they were together or had a child.. He was the one who is working you.. Not her.. she's just very angry.. Sounds like low life to me..
2007-02-19 15:17:15 · answer #3 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order because of the harrassment. Then if she bugs you again you can have her arrested. Also every background check on her will bring up the restraining order and ruin her job prospects.
2007-02-19 15:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with "forgive and forget". Obviously she has a lot of growing up to do and if you retaliate, you will be just as low as she is. If it continues though, contact the police and file harassment charges.
2007-02-19 15:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by Summer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you make your self out to be the sane one. She will come out looking like an *** for acting the way she did. Two wrongs dont make a right.
2007-02-19 15:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u act like it didnt matter all that they did, like all their work didnt affect u, they will get major pissed. when around them, act like nothings wrong, that u didnt care about what they did. that everything is cool between u guys, then they will get mad. when some1 works hard to embarrass some1, the best revenge is to act as if nothing happened. good luck!!! i know its hard to do, but trust me, it works!!
2007-02-19 15:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the mature one and ignore them. If he is your ex, you shouldn't waste time on him or his girl. If she came to your work to holler at you over a guy, she isn't very mature at all. I wouldn't give them the benefit of knowing it bothered me.
2007-02-19 15:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. You'll make yourself look the fool even more--you'll come off as the jealous psycho who couldn't get over this stupid guy. Move on...
2007-02-19 15:14:17 · answer #9 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get even. Forgive and forget. A wise friend told me once to love your enemy. You should take that advice.
2007-02-19 15:10:38 · answer #10 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋