We both want to be together, and I believe in marriage before a child, but he thinks is ok to have a baby before marriage. What is wrong with him. I already have a child out of wedlock and I am not going for that again. He has none, and he is 32, and I am 26.
2007-02-19 07:06:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, he fears not having kids b/c he is 32 and he is not getting any younger. However, you need to make sure that you all get on the same page therefore, you won't have any mistakes made....If he truly cares for you, he will not want to jeopardize what you two have and share......He will respect your decision and realzie that you have ya'll best interest at heart.....Good Luck
2007-02-22 08:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by denise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that since both of you are planning on having a baby there is no harm in waiting. Tell him that its something you strongly believe in and that its important to you. If he wants to be with you he should decide to go ahead and wait. Good luck!
2007-02-19 15:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by I<3Apollo Anton Ohno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that your decision is final and you ARE NOT going to change your mind and if he does not want to commint to you before getting married then how could he possible commit to having a child?
2007-02-19 18:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by Jane_Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for marriage. you have the right thought dont let any one discourage you from that.
Do you also believe that marriage is suppose to come before sex?
2007-02-19 15:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok, but not ideal, in my opinion. If you want to wait, I think you are smart and doing the best for you and any potential future children.
2007-02-19 15:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by goldengirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do what is right.
He is just you're "boyfriend".
You are the only one in control of you're life and what you want out of life. You have this little bitty thing called you're "gut feeling". Listen to it. We ignore it most of the time.
2007-02-19 15:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
OK, a kid is a bigger commitment than marriage, so if he isn't ready for that , then he definitely is not ready for a child. stick to your guns on this one.
2007-02-19 15:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by Angela C 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you don't believe in it don't get pregnant. If he won't marry you before you start a family something is wrong.
2007-02-19 15:09:58 · answer #8 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont let him do that to you,, he might just give you a child and then leave you,, if he loves you then he should think of getting married first.
2007-02-19 15:12:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, 1st of all, it could just be him trying to make luv wit you. if u've already made luv, then just tell him that u're not ready. If he really loves you, he'll wait. ur worth waiting for
2007-02-19 15:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by ! :] ♥ ! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋