I want a boyfriend and all ,but I don't want some immature idiot. Everyone who has asked me out, I don't think too highly of them because they have bad reputations. I'm not superficial or anything but I have talked to them and these boys act as if they weren't taught any manners( swearing every other word, purposely getting into trouble, ect.)
And then ... I have a major crush on this senior who I don't know what to do about. I don't want to like him, I have focus on school. I think I like him cause he isn't a jerk. And then he works at a store that my family goes to often and whenever we see each other, he always says hi to my dad and stuff.... What do I do??
2007-02-19 07:04:27 · 23 answers · asked by ♥PrInCeSs♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One time he asked if had i had a boyfriend, i said no, he asked why? Isaid I couln't date yet, and he asked when I could date.....don't know what that means though..
2007-02-19 07:28:14 · update #1
Wow, you are very mature for your age. Don't worry about the fact that you have never had a boyfriend. You should be proud of yourself because you never wasted your first kiss on an idiot. Save it for someone you really like. This guy you like sounds really nice, don't ask him out though. If he likes you then he'll ask you out. In the meantime, make eye-contact with him and smile, talk to him, and be very friendly. Good luck!
Bless your heart
2007-02-19 07:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by The Voice of Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a junior and I've never had a boyfriend or first kiss either. I'd like to think I'm special because of that. These days there are so many teens dating (which isn't bad) and teens getting pregnant (which is not good). I can't tell you what a relationship is like since I've never been in one but I can tell you that just hanging out with friends is good enough, at least for me. I have two friends that I'm really close to and I just feel free because I don't have to think about guys or worry about how I look or act around them. Of course, I do have crushes now and then but at this age crushes are merely infatuations and shouldn't be taken seriously. I can't say more because I've never confronted any guy I liked. As for you, if you're going for it, just be prepared for anything he'll say. You don't want to seem like an idiot. But I really think you should just focus on close friends and school.
2007-02-19 07:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by Cynderelli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not bad that your in the 10th. grade and you never had a boyfriend or a first kiss. Its good that you want to focus on school and everything and its really good that you dont want a guy who wears baggy pants and talks like he have no manners but every once in a while you have to have fun and party but you still can focus on your work but just have fun every once in a while. And about the senior thing if your afraid to tell him you like him then write in a note and tell a friend to give it to but dont put your name on it. And when you see him at the store try to have a short conversation and then by that time you would probably get used to it and it and then you two might end up together.
2007-02-19 07:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by Ray-ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are trying your hardest to stay focused on what is supposed to be important right now. But whos to say you can't explore the possibilities of a young romance. I remember high school...seniors were always a better choice of meat then those in the same grade. But to be honest, keep your friends close and have the time of your life in High School...you might be a little too young for this senior so try to establish a relationship with him as friends first...then let it go from there. What I meant about the age thing; statutory rape could be an issue. Keep your chin up & good luck!
2007-02-19 07:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by Ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad. There's nothing wrong with being picky and not getting involved with immature guys, it's impressive someone your age actually feels that way. There is no right age or time for the "first kiss". It just happens when it happens.
For the senior, you should just go over and talk to him. You can tell if a guy is interested by his reactions when you first approach him. Feel it out and take it from there. Once you open the door if he likes you, he will try to get to know you.
2007-02-19 07:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by gymrat81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how hard it can be....in highschool I was the only one of my friends w/out a boyfriend, it was so hard and i felt so alone!!! But now that I am older I can see that it was because I was shy and like you very picky!! Dont waste your time on someone you dont want to be with.....If you like this guy just take a chance.....next time you see him and he is alone, (not in front of his friends) just walk up to him and say "I can date now, so was it this weekend you were taking me out or next weekend?" hand him your ohone number, wink at him and walk away. If he doesnt call then just act like it doesnt bother you...... he will see that you arent offended at it might actually like you more because of your confidence.....if you arent comfy going in that fast then just start talking to him every chance you get......so hi and make a habit of stopping to say hi...dont just wave when you walk by........and dont worry that a guy is going to take your focus off school....... My first serious boyfriend was in highschool and i spent every second of my spare time with him but he also understood that I was focused......He would even help me study for a big test.....So in some cases in will actually help you focus on school, and if he is a senior then he is probably focused on his studies as well. good luck.... oh and by the way the comment he made to you about why arent you dating yet....means he is into you!!!!
2007-02-19 07:40:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing bad about not being kissed or dating in the 10th grade. It's very good that you know what you want and you've got good instincts. - stick with your judgement, keep trusting in your judgement. Guys aren't going anywhere, they'll always be around but school won't. You're a good kid and you've got your priorities straight. Keep doing what you're doing, you'll know when the time is right.
Good luck
2007-02-19 07:09:46 · answer #7 · answered by Slim Shady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems like a nice guy. Dont worry about never having a boyfriend maybe you just havent found the right guy yet. If your doing good in school you should go for it! If not concentrate on your school work first.
2007-02-19 07:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by candygirl13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a bad thing that u have never had a boyfriend or a first kiss if anything it is a good thing, and trust me when I say you dont want a boyfriend right now it is to much drama.
2007-02-19 07:09:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not weird! It's normal and you have your head on straight so good for you. As for the senior boy at the store...he says hi to your dad?? does he say hi to you??? Focus on school and make boys friends not boyfriends until you are ready for it. Good luck!
2007-02-19 07:09:29 · answer #10 · answered by DebChick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋