i have a 1 yearold daughter an her father and i are still together even though we are 16 and now we have been fighting alot and it's really scaring the baby what do i do?
2007-02-19 07:01:24 · 14 answers · asked by confused emo gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO NOT FIGHT IN FRONT OF HER! If you must argue, go outside or in another room.
2007-02-19 07:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by lilmama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
both of you need to realize that the baby is the result of both of you, it is an innocent, it is someone that the both of you wanted to have.
whether the child is an infant, 4 yrs old or 10 yrs old, what issues you have with your man is only between the both of you, the child should be saved from any of it being heard, seen or a part of.
closing the door, waiting until the child is asleep, are not ways to blind the child of your arguments, think of the child first. spare the child the grief, the depression and the stress it can exprienced.
you will be surprised that children can be psychologically scarred by this sort of behavior of the parents.
2007-02-19 15:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 16, the relationship may not last. If it is becoming destructive for you and the child then it is better for the child if you two are not together. You can both still be involved in the child's life, even if you are not together.
2007-02-19 15:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by blue_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you and your boyfriend are both too young and immature. You're two children trying to raise a child. At 16, neither one of are capable of earning a decent living or meeting the financial responsibilities of a child! My advice is....Get the hell away from him and get home to your parents, where you both (you and your baby) will be safe!
2007-02-19 15:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl hows it going, if i was you and i was scared of it scaring the baby and stuff then maybe the best thing for you and your bf is to go to a consular or make an effort to spend a little more time with each other and talk to one another well wish you luck girl see ya bye
2007-02-19 15:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest if you start fighting so into another room as long as the baby is safe and cant get into anything or tell the boyfriend you wont fight in front of her and when you both calm down you will talk about what is wrong.
2007-02-19 15:06:09 · answer #6 · answered by stephanie o 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to get counseling. Its sounds dumb i know but it could save your relationship. The last thing you want is for your child to grow up in a hostile environment.
2007-02-19 15:05:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about your baby then think about yourself. is it really worth staying? why should a baby have to deal with the fear of 2 people who are suppose to love her?
2007-02-19 15:08:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r 16?
1st of all thas way 2 young.
what were u thinking?
anyway ask parents, friends.
talk 2 him about it. if he really loves u he'll listen
2007-02-19 15:10:52 · answer #9 · answered by nutella addict 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show the baby an episode of barney during the fighting?
2007-02-19 15:04:26 · answer #10 · answered by F_U_Y_A--T.G.Answeroni5 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋