there is this guy at work who says i dont buss his tables when in reality i am bussing his tables in front of his face-he says he's not going to tip me, like last night- he did not tip me ,(i am the closing host so i am suppose get the money from the servers) he gave the money to another host because he claims i did not buss his tables-but i buss any tables i see dirty which includes his and he's seen me bussng his tables so where does he come off talking to me like that?
2007-02-19 06:56:59 · 16 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
and he wanted to know where the lunch menus were(they are in the same place they have been for ever) ( and he being a server it 's ridiculous for him not to know where the menus are kept he's worked there over a year and me for 2 months) i said over there and pointed to where they are and he said nevermind your worhtless and i told him " i sad over there " and then he said well you told me that after i threw a fit and then he told me to try to be with a good attitiude next wkend when i work again.
2007-02-19 06:57:08 · update #1
i dont think the guy has a crush on me , he is engaged
2007-02-19 07:03:26 · update #2
I think that he is in the wrong in this particular case. He should be more observant of your bussing patterns so that he is aware of what tables have been taken care of, and which ones still remain. Try to remain friendly towards him despite the unnecessary attitude....you still work together and it's better to have a neutral working environment.
2007-02-19 07:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain the situation to the manager. Then ask the manager to not say anything but observe the situation and occassionally take note of what work is and isn't getting done (and by whom). Then if he does not tip out to you claiming you didn't bus his tables you can confront him with the managers support (pending of course that you were doing a good job).
If you approach it in this manner the manager will likely think highly of you from the start. Because you aren't just outright complaining but asking for assistance following observation of the situation.
2007-02-19 07:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by Ecofreako 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
he sounds like a jerk . i suggest that you write down in detail what he says to you and keep that as a record. i would then inform him that in order for the restaurant to work each person must do there bit and not complain about the others.
if he fails to correct his error you could then supply your boss with the notes of the conversations he has had with you .
failing that i would just spill some boiling water or better still hot grease on him one day. that is a good way of getting people to leave.
2007-02-19 07:06:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
suppose he has to buss his own tables, think i could tell him that myself being just a women in the 2 months i had been there has done twice the work he had in a year im tired of carrying you worthless
2007-02-19 07:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by loveChrist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys have a problem with women in authority over them. He's probably just being rude. Tell him that he can either bus his own tables or tip out to you. It's his choice.
2007-02-19 07:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is he your supervisor? this sounds like harrassment to me. He is not permitted to talk so rudely to you. Ask the manager for a copy of their harrassment policy. If this type of issue is covered, then tell the smartie that if he does not change his attitude you are going to report him for harrassment. Life is too short to put up with this kind of you know what.
2007-02-19 07:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by romeoshannon 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The guys sounds like a jerk and he is rude to you. YOu should have him beaten down after work one night.
2007-02-19 07:27:03 · answer #7 · answered by Big Daddy Cool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They were for sure immature youngsters attempting to attraction to interest to themselves to experience cool. You and others were absolutley no longer being overly gentle. that is regularly troublesome to ignore people rude and crude habit. desire you managed to have relaxing besides!
2016-12-04 09:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is giving you a hard time for some reason. Sounds like he is trying to get rid of you.
2007-02-19 07:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty dear, it sounds to me as if this guy has a crush on you but doesn't know how to express it.
2007-02-19 07:01:14 · answer #10 · answered by Heaven's Messenger 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋