my gf went on a mini vacation to go visit her friend , we were kinda in some hotwater a few days before but worked it out, she left and has only called once and its been 4 days, we've been together for 4yrs and usually talk everyday, is this weird.
2007-02-19 06:51:57 · 9 answers · asked by aferraccioli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ive been texting her to see how its going, should i just leave it alone?
2007-02-19 07:01:15 · update #1
She's probably just out having a good time! Don't sweat it. My boyfriend and I live together, talk on the phone everyday (still!), but when I go on a vacation without him I'll probably only call him once or twice and it's not because there's anything wrong! Time apart is good for a relationship.
2007-02-19 06:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by Chakitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that would be weird. but listen to your gut but DON'T DO ANYTIHNG STUPID. listening to your gut don't mean punch a girl in the heart because you THINK she's doing something. just be honest and tell her just what you told everyone here. say "I Love you and i have a concern. i find it a bit weird that we speak very often for 4yrs and then you go on this vacation and speak very little. are you leaving me or seeing someone else?
2007-02-19 15:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by lfis492aa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is on vacation. Let her have this time as a little break. Don't freak out about it, you'll only make things worse. Sometimes a little breathing room is what a relationship needs.
2007-02-19 14:58:58 · answer #3 · answered by blue_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the big man, and act cool. She's coming back, so you will be able to speak again. Be thankful for the short break, and let her wonder what you've been up to by not calling her!
Absence makes the heart grow fonder, ya know...
2007-02-19 14:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by f8_smyled 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, kind of, maybe she just need a break. Wait till she comes home and see what happens. Why haven't you called her??
2007-02-19 14:55:32 · answer #5 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not weird. She's having a good time...sounds like YOU are jealous.
2007-02-19 14:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you didnt have everything worked out & she is moving on
2007-02-19 14:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by kidmiester1973 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she's screwin' someone else and feels guilty about it so you are left in the dark. If you question her about it, she'll deny it, but it's true.
2007-02-19 14:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by Tom T. Hall 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call her and see what is going on,,,
2007-02-19 14:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋