He's so complicated!!!?

Question

I have this boyfriend named Adam and we can't talk right now because I'm kinda grounded. We see each other at school...walk around, hold hands, kiss....etc. But he complains that we don't hang around that much together. I told him that i was grounded for a month, but then he sits there and says I don't like him anymore, i don't pay attention to him anymore. He even says I'm cheating on him. I try to explain to him but it's very hard!! He's so complicated t talk to. But i really like him........he should know that! What do I do?

Answer 1

Dump him. He's calling you a liar and a cheater. Don't tolerate guys who treat you like that.

Answer 2

first off, how old are you two?
sounds like he is throwing a diaper tantrum, meaning he is being unreasonable and wanting when he doesnt get his own way.

it is surprising how even adults can act in the same fashion.

anyway, if you explained to him that your grounded from hanging out and making phone calls, but he sees you at school, he should ge glad that he sees you at all...and the grounding isnt forever.

tell him that, ask him to be patient, and his recent actions isnt going to change your parents decision on your grounding.
if that doesnt get through his head and he wants to be immature about it, think about seeing the other guy you like...

when he feels he is being left out and you moved on to his rival, he will get jealous, his tantrums wont work on you, and he try to get you back....you will be the one holding all of the cards.

Answer 3

He sounds like a complainer. Much like myself. All you can do if just keep telling him that everything is fine and that you care about him. You want to spend time with him but you can't. Either that or break up with him so you don't have to deal with it. He will always be like that. So get used to it.

Answer 4

i think he should be more respectful of the fact that you're grounded! but suggest that when you're off of grounding, that you go out and do something fun and special to make up for the time you've been apart. some guys are just insecure and don't want to think they're losing you. just reassure him and such, until you can have all your time together, back.

Answer 5

This is a pouting display from an immature boy; Get over it if you want to be with him. It is unlikely that the behaviour will change, or that he will suddenly become more understanding, until he really grows up.

Answer 6

What do you think personally ? He has to understand and thats that. No choice there. If he cannot understand you are helpless, what would he ever understand about your difficult situations. He has no trust, and he is impatient, but he obviously do care for you. So. Patience, and communication would work best here.

And if he still acts bad....u know what to do..

good luck

Answer 7

from experience... This sounds like a guy who likes to emotionally wear people out....
My ex was the same, first i thought its cute.. he missed me.. however in the long run it turns into control, emotional control and then u may start getting stuff like.... oh so ur spending more time with ur frs/ family than me cuz u dont like me... which even gets deeper and more complex...
If he likes u , he should understand ur sitiation and be ok with it...
Plz dont get pulled into this mess, tell him to cope... and dont emotionally bow down to him.
Plz.... previous exp

Answer 8

NOTHING! just let it go! don't worry about him. Worry about your schoolwork and getting out of trouble! at home.

Answer 9

tell him how you feel - tell him that it bothers you that he thinks that crap about you and that yuo really like him! And that if he really like you - he should understand and believe you!