once a year 2003-2005 with same guy who lives abroad but everytime he comes here he does her. i met her in 03 so i feel she been cheating the whole time. she even cheated while i was on holiday and he came back. its 2 years ago now but i only just found out bout everything
2007-02-19 06:38:51 · 61 answers · asked by fethawi s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump her u idiot.
2007-02-26 22:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence but she is a little s**t and you can do a lot better. You don't deserve for her to treat you this way.
She blatantly cheated on you and didn't tell you for two years, did she tell you or did you find out by accident???
It wasn't your fault it was her's and his so don't think bad about you.
I know it is going to take a while to get over but dumping her is for the best. If you stay with her then you will end up jealous and bitter and you dont want that to happen to you.
Good luck xx
2007-02-19 06:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to break up with her. It will probably be upsetting for you, but it is very unhealthy to have a relationship with someone who you know is and has repeatedly cheated on you. You can't trust her. Even if she stops cheating on you, you'll never forget what she's done in the past and I really don't think you could have a fulfiling and healthy relationship. It's for the best. I'm sure you will meet someone else who will be devoted to you and only you. good luck.
2007-02-19 06:50:46 · answer #3 · answered by purplestar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let's make sure i know what's going on..
Your girlfriend cheated on you when you first started dating and now you've been together for 2 years, and you don't know what to do now that you've found out.
Well if I'm right, confront her and tell her that you don't like what you've found out and that you don't know how to handle it because you love her, but she did cheat, if she admitts to it and apologizes for it, take a break if you need to but don't leave her, everyone makes mistakes, but if she seems like she doesn't care, and that it's happened more than once, then dump her and tell her that you've gotta go.
2007-02-19 06:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to end it with her. She is not worth your time. Thats a long time to be with someone who is cheating and if shes done it more the once then she clearly doesnt feel too bad about it. Cut your losses and move on with your life. You'll find someone better that would never think to cheat on you. Good luck.
2007-02-19 06:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by lisha23346 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has been cheating the whole time, then she's got no respect for the relationship, especially when she wasn't even woman/adult enough to tell you in the first place and face the consequences.
2007-02-27 06:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by HappilyEverAfter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. I have no tolerance for cheating. It happened that long ago and you are finding out now? What else has she lied about? You just better be sure she did cheat before you do it.
2007-02-19 06:42:27 · answer #7 · answered by scarbados 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything rash, if sex is reasonable use her for it, in the meantime look for someone new and blow her out when the time is right. To be honest two wrongs don't make a right but at least you leave your self esteem in tact. Watch you don't catch anything from her.
2007-02-19 06:59:52 · answer #8 · answered by Redmonk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one thing to do, dump her . Once a cheat always a cheat.
Number two thing to do, go get tested for any type of veneral disease as soon as possible. People that pass diseases around don't know they have them or don't want to admit to themselves or others that they do.
2007-02-19 06:44:04 · answer #9 · answered by antonyguido@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say ask her why was it so important to cheat on me and if u had a problem we should have talk about it i will leave her she will not make u happy she will continue to cheat on u find a woman that would make u happy at least it will be the good for u
2007-02-19 06:45:51 · answer #10 · answered by Firstquarter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The leopard DOES Not change the color of its spots.I know for sure it will happen repeatedly in the future, despite any promises she makes.
Lots of good fish in the sea. She is a loser of the first order! Dump immediately.
2007-02-19 06:43:45 · answer #11 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋