wil he forgive me or want nothing to do with me ?
2007-02-19 06:26:19 · 26 answers · asked by sophmof 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well am 16, and i told him i was 17, hes 27, i really like him, n i hope he can forgive me, ive been stupid! because i dont care bwt age, its only a number
2007-02-19 06:40:54 · update #1
depends on how old you told him you were, if your underage then i doubt he'll forgive you as he could get into trouble
2007-02-19 06:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by boybellend 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how much he believed you. why did you lie about your age? did you want to appear older or younger? most of the time if you start off lying to someone thats what they are going to expect in the future a lie. but if you have a good reason as to why u lied and put a little heart into it he may forgive u and just have to work with the truth. how old did u tell him u were? and how old are u really? sometimes you have to think a few times before you do certain things. but hey dont feel bad its all a part of life and growing and if he dosent forgive u just learn from ur mistake and move on.
2007-02-19 14:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey hun, u obviously thought this was for the best at the start of the relationship!
Your age shouldn't make a difference as he has got 2 know and grew to love you and everything about you! Your personality and looks do not go by ur age! So i think he would b stupid not 2 forgive you!
I hope things work out 4 u and ur lover!
xxxx
2007-02-19 14:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by weeniki69 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess that depends how badly you lied about your age. If it's only a year or two then it should be ok. If it makes you an illegal thats not usually a good sign. If he likes you enough then it shouldn't be a problem just explain to him how you feel. If he doesn't then he obviously isn't worth having a relationship with anyway! Everyone lie's about their age at some point, whether to make you older or younger. It's best to come clean.
2007-02-19 14:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It totally depends on a number of things. How vast the age difference is? Is it even legal? Also, it depends on how much honesty means to him. Does he hold grudges? Is he a forgiving person? Does he believe in redemption. Does he think you will lie again in the future? Only time will tell.
2007-02-19 14:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by Paisley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? R u "under age?" Depends on if u are of legal age now. If not then he may not want to see u until u r "of age." If u r older than he is then don't worry about it. It will be a little weird that u lied about something as crazy as your age but i'm sure he will be cool with it.
2007-02-19 14:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a big age gap but if he didn't mind you being 17 i doubt he will mind 1 years difference. Definitely tell him though the sooner the better. He needs to know.
2007-02-19 14:52:13 · answer #7 · answered by kate g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how big the difference in age is. If its going to be a possible legal problem then it'll be a huge problem. Otherwise, he may forgive you.
2007-02-19 14:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by zebj25 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number. It has nothing to do in my personal opinion, as long as you are in a good shape.
2007-02-19 14:30:40 · answer #9 · answered by purplemollies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lying about your age is not a big issue, imo. Just tell him that you feel really bad about it and wanted him to know the truth. It's hard to say how he'll react.
2007-02-19 14:33:24 · answer #10 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that probably depends on if he'll be going to jail because of your lie. And if it was a no-big-deal one time thing, or one in a long pattern of lies.
2007-02-19 14:30:08 · answer #11 · answered by Abigail 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋