It was really easy before I was married. 10 years ago things were different then. The bar does not seem like a good option. I am very outgoing and deal with the public, but i don't want meeting people to interfere with my professionalism at work. I just don't know what to do and the internet seems so desperate. I am an attractive woman that looks several years younger than I am. Help!!!! I just don't know where to go.
2007-02-19 06:18:19 · 17 answers · asked by 5seriesfan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Alot of people think you are desperate for looking online, it's not so. I would prefer to do it that way, I met my man of 8 months online at yahoo personals. Don't get me wrong, had to go thru some deadbeats but it turned out good. You can learn so much more about them by emailing and messenging than just meeting them on the streets or bars. You can see if you have at least a mutual connection first before meeting...Oh yea always meet in a public spot first and let someone know where you are going and who your meeting. I had some good experiences though,. I told someone the other day, I met my man online and they turned their nose up. I thought, yea but i'm the one with the love of my life and your alone. Who's the loser now.....
Good luck.
2007-02-19 06:25:31 · answer #1 · answered by justright73 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi...
just think how well you are doing... independently...
don't rush at things because that is a recipe for disaster...
I only know its when you stop searching that you find...
what are you interested in academically or aesthetically..??
ART...Painting.. sculpting...... music..voice.. join a choir.. learn to play an instrument... or study a language
.. the point to all this is you will be doing something YOU want to do ... and YOU WILL MEET people who have similar interests.. and maybe that special person ..
oh and forget the bars... when you meet someone that way you can't be sure if they are gonna love alcohol more than you...
2007-02-19 06:34:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i see u have to start over not good. 10 years gone of your life.well try to get out show us your are looking some women with children are scraed men wont take the children to. Well some men my age 38 happy with that . Now if love heart and soul can still be found after your first fall, Lets give it a try. nice that u are trying im 38 single m
2007-02-19 07:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same way you met them before you were 34 and without kids. In case you hadn't noticed, single men walk freely among married men. Just look for signs of no wedding rings or kids and stuff like that. We're everywhere.
2007-02-19 06:21:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im a single mother now with 4 kids, you really need to get out more.
Your not a bad mother if you leave your kids with a babysitter,
get out with friends from work, you dont have to go to the bar to meet someone theres church, grocery store you no what i mean....
Sometimes we do feel guilty about trying to meet someone but thats life and in the long run it will all work out .....
2007-02-19 06:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by native_power2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi you can meet almost anybody anywere the possibilites are endless, church functions, i meet a girlfriend at the library once, join a fitness club thats a good place to start, lots of single guys there,take out a singles ad in your local paper, and if your into the internet dating scene try the two i have listed, their not really that bad, even try a couple of nice high end clubs, Good luck.Both are 100% free.
2007-02-19 06:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any single neighbors? How about Church? Do your kids know of any single parents that they might be able to set you up with? Your right the bar is the worst place to meet singles. Maybe you shouldn't worry about it so much, you know don't go looking for love, love will find you.
2007-02-19 06:35:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being 34, divorced or a mom has no longer something to do with being materialistic or no longer. Her challenge might have extra to do with that and attempting to strengthen 2 little ones on my own isn't common. individually, i could be searching for a superb guy, that earned as lots if not extra and had as lots materially if not extra. No woman with little ones needs yet another one to help and carry.
2016-10-02 09:49:16 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've gotten to seeing that "Love" is being offered in the wrong ways. We give it from Our Eyes. `Cause someone is Good Looking. We give it from our Heads? `Cause we don't wanna be alone. We give it from our Crotch? `Cause we fell we need someone to use our Bodies. But Love is suppose to be from the Heart. And it's suppose to be a Two-Way Connection. So where do you find a Sweet man? Listen to your Heart. Just listen to the Thumps. And it will tell you when the right one is around. And he is! You've gotta believe that. Just listen and wait. Don 't deprive Mr. Right, the chance to sweep you off your feet. Good Luck!
2007-02-19 06:27:11 · answer #9 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
eharmony is the future of dating! People are based on a compatability ratio and it will educate the men of your children before you ever meet! Isn't that what you want? For them to meet your kids with prior knowledge and acceptance? Worth the money!
2007-02-19 06:33:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋