i sensed that my boyfriend does not care for me or love me the way he used to previously.. he told me that he is tired and we have even cut down on making love till not making at all. i was feeling very unappreciated and miserable for the recent months that he has treated me so coldly and unkind. i asked him today why and he said that he felt like he is trapped in a cage! i was very surprised that he said that as I have never control or restrict his movements. i then asked him what he wants about us.. he said up to me. i asked him why up to me since it concerns us.. he refused to comment. why cant he say break-up and still say love-miss-me.. he even called me his wife. i then asked him all those addressings don't mean anything to him? he said why am i taking it so seriously? i just can't comprehend. i asked him to make a decision now but he declined and said to wait till tomorrow. we have not make love for two months and he claimed that he is too tired. what shd i do?
2007-02-19 06:13:19 · 6 answers · asked by alluring1314 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like either he is done with the relationship and wants you to end it
or
he is getting it on the side somewhere else and withdrawing from you is easier, again waiting for you to end it
or
If you two have really TALKED and you know what is going on in his life, he may just be worn down, stressed out, confused, and honestly needs a little time off to "discover" what he really wants.
You don't say how old you both are. Or if you have ever dated other people, etc. So I guess your options are:
1--break it off
2--wait for him to break it off
3--give him the space he needs, and wait for him
4--give him his space but don't wait
5--keep it the way it is and continue to be unhappy
2007-02-19 06:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by HappyGoLucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this boy is not treating you the right way then you should not be with him. You should ask him are you going to treat me like you love me or not. Say I want to be with you but you must treat me better. One thing is that if he does not love you and you know it then you should break up with him. If you know he loves you then you should tell him that you want your couple to go on. If does not treat you nicely just one more moment break up with him. Say if you are to tired to love me, then just go away. I hope I solved your problem.
BYE!!!!!
2007-02-19 06:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by Stephy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is definitely hinting a break up.
you can be sure he already has another babe.
dont let him hurt you so much.
try and move on before it is too late....
i believe the wife calling was when the going was good...
wake up girl....
2007-02-19 06:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by aminnylabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat him to it and break up with him. That may make him reconsider. But it sounds like it is already over.
2007-02-19 06:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, he's obviously not worth your time or love. We all live and learn, and from what I've learned, they had better care more than that or else.
2007-02-19 06:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by karenhar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should break up with him. he sounds insecure and probably has a fear of commitment. you don't need to be with a person who makes you feel miserable and doesn't appreciate you.
2007-02-19 06:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by sweetti825 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋