i have been dating a guy for awhile. i love him. he use to say that he loved me. then we met each others families. mine love him but since we met his he has been different. he says he is not sure that he loves me or cares about me. we still have sex but it is not the same. alot of the time i have to work at it to get him even slightly interested and then he will surprise me and be the one who initiates everything. doeshe care about me even though he says he doesn't? he seems to get upset if i talk to a guy any advice at all would be a help. thanx
2007-02-19 06:11:12 · 5 answers · asked by trlanel25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetheart u need to find someone that truely loves u.He told u he's not sure if he loves u or even cares about u.What more do u want?I mean u know for sure u love him.So that should tell u that he doesn't. Men also will take sex from someone anytime.That has nothing to do with how they feel towards u. Take it from someone alot older. You deserve better.Get out of this relationship and find one that u are happy in.Good luck
2007-02-19 06:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is confused too. Is it possible that his family wasn't impressed with you? There are times where this will influence a guy. Give him some space. There's an old saying that goes: If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours. If it doesn't, it never was.
2007-02-19 14:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by karenhar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think his family does not like you and he doesnt know what to do about it.
the issue is he likes you but he is confused about what to do because his people do not like you.
you guys will have to talk it out.
try and confront him so you can discuss a way forward.
2007-02-19 14:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by aminnylabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he prolly doesnt wanna say it cuz it aint that puppy love thing no more and its either that or he feels he shouldnt have to say it anymore cuz its gettin played out
2007-02-19 14:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by nl balla 5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes using you and your letting him...try kicking him to the curb
2007-02-19 14:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋