OK, I am 11 and have a girlfriend. We have been kissing a lot lately, like everyday. The trouble is it is a really sloppy mess. Do you guys have any tips on kissing? I mean it is really sloppy, her tongue goes one way, and BLAH! So any tips are appreciated!
2007-02-19 06:10:38 · 27 answers · asked by Shyeaa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also don't tell me to stop it is my life!
2007-02-19 06:11:00 · update #1
aw that is really sweet. and im not sayn that so you think "oh sheesh, who is this and why is she laughing?" im not laughing, i think its sweet. 11 is not too young if you want to kiss. its innocent and all you want to do is do it better, right? the only way you will get better is by practicing. i kno it sounds silly, but use the back of your hand or a pillow. no amount of advice will help you, its something you have to learn on your own.
good luck and happy kissing! =D
2007-02-19 06:37:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok , well your a little young for kissing but all give you some tips. Ok, well once you start to go in for the kiss she should follow, don't close your eyes to soon or you'll miss the target. Shut your eyes slowly. Imagine they're being controlled by the dimmer switch in your bedroom. Close your eyes when you make contact. Tilt your head ALWAYS to the right. Try to keep your lips closed because once you open your mouth your inviting a french kiss . . . which your probably not ready for. Hope this helps :) !
2007-02-19 14:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by **JEN** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the trouble is that it's a sloppy mess, maybe you should cut back on the tongue part.
2007-02-19 14:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
11 and kissing your girlfriend... Hmm.
The dude in me says WOOT way to go! but the parent in me says Are you out of your MIND?
Heh, dude wins.
Here's a tip - don't force it. Just let it happen. I'm not advocating your activity, just saying, everyone is terrible at it when they first start doing it - much like lots of things in life. Just take it slow, no rush. You've got another 10 to 15 years to practice before you get married and never have to do it again... lol
Good luck to you.
2007-02-19 14:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find the best kissing uses little tongue. Concentrate more on the pressure, nibbling the lips and keeping it dry. Introduce tonguing much later on, like when you are 16.
Kissing is an expression of affection. Not an act unto itself.
2007-02-19 14:14:49 · answer #5 · answered by sagegranny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont kiss a girl at 11 wait till your 15-16 trust me. it will be better anyways.go to school
2007-02-19 14:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by who knows 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your only 11, so I wouldn't worry about being the best kisser. Everyone starts out bad. No tips or suggestions will help you. Experience is what will help you. Just keep practicing!
2007-02-19 14:14:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its not really a certain way to kiss. It all depends on the mood. If yall are in the mood for a slow kiss then itll happen.
2007-02-19 14:14:12 · answer #8 · answered by Kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take 1 second breaks between kisses to swallow the sulliva. it works. people kiss without the sloppy mess.
good luck
2007-02-19 14:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by jpcjulia 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps your a bit to aggressive on the kisses. Try having less of your mouth open when kissing.
2007-02-19 14:31:57 · answer #10 · answered by danzahn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋