because its this average boy @ school i really hang around him alot i really like him but is it his looks that matter or how he acts
2007-02-19 06:05:25 · 17 answers · asked by tatipooh911 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
-____- it's both
i can't believe you have to ask this question. if you like someone you like someone. you shouldn't force it because of their looks or personality.
2007-02-19 06:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by sweetsourchikin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Here's the deal. There must be physical attraction. You must find someone physically appealing.
AND, personality affects physical attraction.
I don't care if you are the most physically beautiful person in the world. A bad personality makes you appear less attractive.
And a good personality will make you appear more attractive.
I've been attracted to all kinds of women, big, small, short, tall, white, black, yellow, brown, orange hair, green eye shadow... Women who I did not find physically attractive at first became more so after getting to know them. So absolutely, personality is #1.
The old saying "Use your legs to catch him and your head to keep him"
Remember, the sexiest thing a woman can wear is a smile. Same thing goes for the guys...
Good luck.
A~
2007-02-19 06:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's how he acts. It really doesn't matter what's on the outside, what matters the most is what's on the inside. So many people are always trying to look "good." It really doesn't matter at all. As long as your healthy and educated.
2007-02-19 06:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by Julia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personality. even though like all girls love looks, personality is the best way to go. cause you can have alot in common or get marry to a boy that you two don't like doing and getting a divorce. Good Luck!
2007-02-19 06:10:30 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks are not everything. I don't mean to go out with a total bow-wow, but he doesn't have to be Shawn Pin, drop dead gorgeous either for you to like him. Beauty is only skin deep. The real beauty is within a person. If they make you happy, then who the hell cares what others think. They are not the one spending time with them, now are they?
2007-02-19 06:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by golden rider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are what will attract you to him in the first place, so it's a bit of both but more so leaning on the side of Personality. Looks are only the appetizer, while personality and character are the main entree!
2007-02-19 06:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by Mimo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all about his personality u should never judge nobody by there looks its how they treat you and respect you because the average dudes is jsut that one them pretty boys think the world revolves around them.
2007-02-19 06:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's for you to say. I'd say you should be attracted to how he looks, but it's how he acts towards you that is really important--if he respects you, he'll show it in how he acts, and you have to be with someone who respects you. But don't go out with Capitain Ugly just because he treats you like a queen, that's not fair to him.
2007-02-19 06:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I go for both... A total package has to have everything. Why waste any time with someone who doesnt meet all of your needs. You are your No. 1 priority... take care of yourself first.
2007-02-19 06:08:10 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i go for the personality but the looks are just a bonus lol you should never go out with any one for their looks cause their personality could be crummy so always go for the personality
2007-02-19 06:46:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Come on, you should always know it is never what looks that matter, it is their heart.
2007-02-19 06:08:32 · answer #11 · answered by freezie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋