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due to my parents financial problem i m very upset.bcoz im not having any job,dependent on my husband,i cant even help them.my husband is very nice person but i cant say to him to manage money for them.whenever i feel happy wih my husband i always go into the guilt feeling.i feel i have no right to become happy if my parents are in trouble.please try to solve my problem.my brother is also suffering from depression and he is having no job.i think the decision to get married was wrong

2007-02-19 05:55:18 · 4 answers · asked by Saumya R 1 in Family & Relationships Family

4 answers

I´m sorry you are feeling guilty for being in a better position and not being able to help financially. I don´t know what that has to do with getting married, though. Can you look for a job? or why don´t you ask your husband if you could LOAN some money to your parents? That way you won´t be asking for charity and it could help your parents get back on their feet.
Good luck.

2007-02-19 06:03:16 · answer #1 · answered by No se 5 · 1 0

Iam a parent my self. the best i can say to you is take care of your own family. you and your husband left your parents to start you own family. It's understandable you want to help your parents. we were newly weds once ourselves, and felt the same as you do now. don't add any more pressure on yourself or you husband. if you have lots,lots,lots,lots of money more than you can use ---- do help. I am a Parent, with grown kids I LEAVE THEM ALONE ABOUT MONEY.

2007-02-19 14:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by J 4 · 2 0

Why are your family relying on you to help them financially?
If I was your husband I would say 'look, I married you and not your family'.
If you think your husband is failing you because he doesnt give money to your family I say you are wrong. Tell your family to take a hike.

2007-02-19 14:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 1 2

don't blame yourself
things happen and sometimes you can't solve everything
you gotta let them work themselves out

2007-02-19 14:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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