i know that GOD has us here for a reason, and i know that our bod
ies are going to get sick and old. but do the pain that we feel in it, has to hurt so bad? i hurt in my fingers, joints, knees, legs, shoulde
rs, neck, feet, toes, elbow,arms, and my nerves just hurt and hurt?
sometime i lay down crying, and wake up crying. many times its hard to put one foot in front of the other one. im only 53 years old.a
nd its hard for me to say that i want alot more years here, if they ar
e going to be this bad and worse? THE BACK DOCTOR and thera
pist have told me that if i dont have my entire spine redone, then i will not be walking by age 56? well, the operation back in 1991 cost
ed 78,000.00. thats why i PRAY often that the LORD wont let me b
e a burden, or dependent on my family. or dont let me live the rest
of my days in a nursing home, or personal care home? i would rat
her go ahead, and get on out of the way soon. i have been BLESS
ED with a GOOD LIFE. and GOD has been GOOD to ME
2007-02-19 05:55:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Pain & Pain Management
i was diagnosed with sugar, bleeding hem
oroids, high blood, gout, heart failure conge
sted, high cholesterol, kidney and liver trou
ble.please dont get me wrong, because i k
now that i am TRULY BLESSED. because
there are people walking, and living here in
this world in worser condition than me. I TH
ANK GOD. Because i know that HE has be
en better to me than i have deserved to be
treated. when i think about HIS GRACE, M
ERCY, and GOODNESS, I cant help but to
see all the beautiful things and people that
we are fortunately, to live here with. Im tha
nkful for the energy and effort, in baring this
pain as much as i can. It gets rough most
of the time, and there are times when i wis
h that i could give up? But the SPIRITUAL s
ide ENCOURAGES ME to keep on going,b
ecause better days are just around the cor
ner, and that its not going to be this way al
ways. But i still pray, that I wont be a burde
n on my family, or live in a nursing home?I
hope to be gone home soon?
2007-02-19 09:56:34 · update #1
i was diagnosed with sugar, bleeding hem
oroids, high blood, gout, heart failure conge
sted, high cholesterol, kidney and liver trou
ble.please dont get me wrong, because i k
now that i am TRULY BLESSED. because
there are people walking, and living here in
this world in worser condition than me. I TH
ANK GOD. Because i know that HE has be
en better to me than i have deserved to be
treated. when i think about HIS GRACE, M
ERCY, and GOODNESS, I cant help but to
see all the beautiful things and people that
we are fortunately, to live here with. Im tha
nkful for the energy and effort, in baring this
pain as much as i can. It gets rough most
of the time, and there are times when i wis
h that i could give up? But the SPIRITUAL s
ide ENCOURAGES ME to keep on going,b
ecause better days are just around the cor
ner, and that its not going to be this way al
ways. But i still pray, that I wont be a burde
n on my family, or live in a nursing home?I
hope to be gone home soon?
2007-02-19 10:04:28 · update #2
i'm sorry that you are experiencing so much pain in your life at the moment. I know that your strong religious beliefs keep you grounded in reality, but I do believe that you have the strength to feel better. While the physical pain may be tremendous, know that your emotional self is ten times greater! Think of this time as an opportunity to challenge yourself to being the most positive person despite this hardship. When people ask you, "How are you feeling?", just reply, "I am fabulous." Even if the pain may convince you otherwise, know that others are praying for your return to good health and that your wishes are not in vain. Good luck and continue to believe!
2007-02-19 06:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He spent years being hurtful, threatening your security, and now simply diminishes the pain he caused and the scars it left within you? that's abusive, too, mama. Try calling your local domestic violence shelter for counseling (they usually handle all forms of absue: emotional, which your hsuband is doing, as well as chldhood sex abuse, dating abuse, verbal, etc.) Most also are grant-funded and dnonor-funded and offer services for free or at a really reduced rate. In indivual counseling, you can sort out the how's and why's of your feelings, devise a plan of how to rebuild your own esteem and security no matter what's going on, make safer emotional choices, and, should you decide in that process that you want to leave, they'll walk you through planning your exit and carrying it out safely. Many offer child care and job skills training too. Whatever you do, do not go to marriage counseling until you have had your own therapy and are ready, and until he has too.While it's difficult for most abusers to ever shed their own wounds, some can heal. You run the risk of being duped by false recoveries from him though, seeing the level of emotional control he feels he needs over you. Your body has sustained life. twice! You are beautiful as you are. With therapy, the logic will be felt in your heart all the time. Go for it!
2016-03-15 22:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear one I empathize and have been in pain that few can imagine.
There is a book called The Trigger Point Therapy Workbook by Davies that with its information on muscles and the aid of a chiropractor and a massage therapist, mine is manageable now.
May the King of creation be gracious.
2007-02-20 14:12:28 · answer #3 · answered by Keko 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not unless we turn into robots
2007-02-19 06:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by ozkanjr 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋