I am seeing this guy and he told me that he doesn't want anything serious but, he wants to still be with me and go out and do things and be the same way that we are, but he doesn't want anything serious right now. I like him alot and I want to be with him, but, he doesn't want anything serious or intimate. Should I stay or should I go? I am so confused, please help me.
2007-02-19 05:50:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can still hang out with him and stuff, but find someone else to get serious with
2007-02-19 05:55:34 · answer #1 · answered by Essie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems the only way that you would be confused is if the two of you want two different things. If that is the case, regroup. Take a breather and relax. You seem to want more from this relationship, than he does. If that is so, I advise you to respect his words and feelings before you lose the friendship. You should not force the issue. If "more" is meant to be then it will. Time could make all the difference. And remember, yoga is our friend.
2007-02-19 13:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by TygerLily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go there will be trouble, if you stay it will be double. Haha! just kidding. Ummm! Depends, does he want to date other people or just you.Is he just keeping you on the back burner till something better comes along. I don't know how old you are. That can determine alot. If your not in a rush and he just wants to date you then go for it. If you want more and he is not ready then that is your decision.
2007-02-19 13:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by whatever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you like the guy then respect his wishes and just be good friends right now and build on that. He probably just wants to take things slow which can be a good thing. Good Luck
2007-02-19 13:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by Lace 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are looking for different things, and he´s made it clear he doesn´t want anything more; then you should try to stay away from him. Otherwise, you´ll keep your hopes up and could get really hurt. That´s what i´d do anyway...
2007-02-19 13:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by No se 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO! Erase him from your life. If you see him it willl only hurt you and it will be hard to date other guys. Without a doubt if you stay in touch with him you will wonder if he is being nice cuz he likes you too.
2007-02-19 13:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by EV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't hang out with him without your feelings getting in the way, then go. If you can put your feelings aside, then stay. Just hang out, he'll see how awesome you are in time.
2007-02-19 13:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you as a cheat/free hooker.
Drop him like he's on fire and go find your true love who does want something serious. You ARE worth more!
2007-02-19 13:56:00 · answer #8 · answered by TeaQueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋