ok me and my bf have split like 3 times and always get back togther like in a months times as he say he mis me wont me back, i never beg for him back as he brraks my heart to split up when i dont wont to any way, we split coz he dint bother to compromise, now he has got in touch and say he miss me and love me relaise wil never change wonts us to give it a go and b more relaxed not see each other so much but i said what jus so u kan have sex he said no. so i meet up with him and its like we never split i do love him but what if he gets afraid to commit and goes out a lot more and we garuge and split up again he said we wont we wil;l get throught it
2007-02-19 05:42:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this his 3rd chance
2007-02-19 05:47:49 · update #1
PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT???????????? Keep trying
2007-02-19 06:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by Pamela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to set him straight what you want is a relationship and everything that comes with it,the ups and the downs.If you don't be firm and stick your ground this is the way your relationship will always be because you allow it.and lets be frank what guy could resist sex on a plate without the commitment.Be TOUGH if he really loves you he'l be ready to compromise. Good luck!!!
2007-02-19 13:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by cheekychimp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say give him one more chance and umm if he messes up girl get another man that will commit to u and wont play games...but first just actually sit down and have a long talk to him and tell him ...look i ain tgot time to be playin these childish games wiht you im wantin sumbody who i aint goin to have to worry are we goin ta break up..im tired of gettin my heart broken!!!if that dont work girl get u a real man....hope it works out holla
2007-02-19 13:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by babysuga817 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him back if you like being a doormat, but if it was me I would tell him to get stuffed and I would go out and find someone who wants to treat me much better - there are some nice guys out there!!!!
2007-02-19 13:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by willt246 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My love and I do a similar thing.
I've always taken him back.
We got back together in January.
This time is so much better.
what did i do differently this time?
I didnt beg for him back, I waited for him to come back to me.
I guess we'll see what happens next.
If you love him... take him back.
2007-02-19 13:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by samantha.sawyer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go out a lot with your friends. don't wait at home for him to say when he wants to see you. and tell him this is his last chance and mean it. he dose it because he thinks he can get you back when he wants. put your foot down and get him to do things your way
2007-02-19 13:57:42 · answer #6 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go find some other gal for sex, somewhere else. Tell him you're tired of his silly games.
He's using you, and I think you know that. He's not ever going to change. You deserve better.
2007-02-19 14:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he seeing other people when you split? if he is then he's a user. if not then he is scared to commit, please don't let him wreck you self belief, and respect yourself, i don't think he is capable of a relationship, and if that's what you want, then go and find a nice bloke (yes they are out there) that will treat you right, good luck pal x
2007-02-19 13:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by honey xx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe get back together then you can break it off. i tink u wud b better off wivout im cos he to childish you need a man who aint gonna play u.
u DESERVE BETTER
2007-02-19 14:23:41 · answer #9 · answered by aromatise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the most complicated sentence I have ever read.
What's a garuge?
2007-02-19 13:55:42 · answer #10 · answered by ferris_bueller1980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone deserves a second chance...
2007-02-19 13:46:31 · answer #11 · answered by lisababy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋