There is this girl. People mistake me and her.Basically what i am trying to say is that people see us and think that we are going out.Me and her are really close friends we do everything together.Last night she came over to my house and I was playing football(soccer) and I looked at her because he was watching me and i thought god i love her! I have never felt this feeling before in my life!When me and this girl walk around town we hold hands. When we sat in the car we hold hands, whenever we can we hold hands. We never do anything more than hold hands.I am just worried that if me and this girl go out and if we split up it will ruin our friendship which i don't want happening. Can someone please give me advise!
2007-02-19 05:28:35 · 13 answers · asked by Randall 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok im going to ask her out but can you give me some ideas on how to do it. I thought i would take her out on a date and then take her on a beach walk and ask her there.
2007-02-19 06:32:55 · update #1
Just be friend with her. It's that easy.
2007-02-19 05:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You guys can hold hands every chance you can? Then there are 2 possibilities. 1, she really likes you and waiting for you to make THE move. 2, she looks up to you like a brother.
So, the only way you can find out, is to ask her or ask her friends. Then again, her friends may be unrealiable. Be strong and prepare for any result.
2007-02-19 05:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by Ask 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so you don't want to loose your friendship with this girl but do you really want to live your life loving someone and never actually telling them, what is the point in that.
From what you have said it is kinda obvious she feels the same, so just bite the bullet and go for it because life is way to short to keep putting off going for what you want.
Good luck babe xxx
2007-02-19 05:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U really like this girl, hey... Well just ask her out and go fro there. Me and my ex are still REALLY good friends. If u two do split up, just make sure your the one to make sure that the friendship is still close.
2007-02-19 05:32:46 · answer #4 · answered by Tic Tac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, you've nothing to lose. It honestly sounds like she likes you back, so what have you to lose, it could be the best thing you've ever done, and if not, at least you'll know you've tried. I think the things ppl regret the most are the things they never did, rather trhan those they did.
2007-02-19 05:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by rebecca j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I`m in a similar situation. You have to ask yourself. If she goes out with someone else, how will you feel ? If you can`t handle that, you have to talk to her before she does find someone. Don`t let her slip away.
2007-02-19 05:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by hbk13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude just ask her out. The way it seems you should be going out with her. Just know that if she rejects you you can always be friends. And if you are going out with her and she dumps you or you dump her you can always be friends.
2007-02-19 05:42:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OHH U R SOO SWEET IF ONLI ALL MEN WERE LKE U . SHOULD TALK TO HERE AND TELL HERE HOW U FEEL. IF SHE LOVES U LIKE U LOVE HERE THEN WHY NOT TAKE THE CHANCE LIFE IS TOO SHORT XXXXX GOOD LUCK TELL ME HOW IT GOES
2007-02-19 05:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by POLLYPOPPY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg she totally likes u!!! if she didnt, she would never in her wildest dreams hold ur hand! if u go out, it probably wont ruin nething, since u guys r already soo close!!!! ask her out!!!! u will regret it if u dont! good luck!!
2007-02-19 05:36:01 · answer #9 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How are you going to feel if she gos out with some one else. Give it a go .
2007-02-19 05:45:43 · answer #10 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends whether u hav sexual feelings for her or whether its just love. i hold hands, hug and kiss my freinds all the time, we do love each other but its not sexual. sometimes you've just got to realise that there is love and theres love, you have just got to figure out which kind.
2007-02-19 06:21:12 · answer #11 · answered by ... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋