he is drivin me crazy i cant go out any where have to watch who i talk to cant even e mail a male friend who lives 1000s of miles away he is very nasty and i do nothing to merit it i look after him well and tell him i love him all the time what can i do i cant even go ouy with my 23 year old son for lunch i get hrs of nastiness for it
2007-02-19 05:27:18 · 21 answers · asked by judrop111 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
fiance? he's you're fiance by your agreement. it will only get worse and never better. it's a sickness and a mental illness he has. save yourself. break up but be careful, his type could eventually get violent. i'd break up and move away...far away.
2007-02-19 05:31:34 · answer #1 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No matter how much you reassure your fiance he will try to say that if you loved him you would spend 24 hours devoted to him.
He is irrationaly jealous and needs proper help to get over this. You need to get out of there before he makes you as isolated as he wants you and that includes cutting you off from your son.
Contact your local womans refuge if you are worried about him coming after you - you can go to a new area to get away from him.
2007-02-19 06:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer to this one.
Don't marry him!
If you still wish to marry, I suggest you both go for counseling to find out why he has a hard time trusting you. What you are experiencing is a form of abuse from him. He will just get worse until you sit him down and let him know that it's not acceptable for him to act this way. His behavior is not a sign of love it is a sign that things could get worse!
Be safe and go for help!
2007-02-19 05:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get very far away from this person. Nastiness eventually turns to violence. Do what you have to do including a restraining order from police if you need to. If this man loves you he would not be treating you this way. Don't talk to him and try to work things out....get out. Best of luck to you.
2007-02-19 05:40:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have just read the previous answers I could have voted for them all. Get the hell out, do not look back. Do it before it gets worse, if you can, move away. How long will it be before he drives your son away and has you completely friendless, listen to all these people. They are trying to help.
2007-02-19 05:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by chewystuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a precursor to abuse,it is just a matter of time before he starts hitting you.Once you are married,he will have complete control over you.
Get out now....run,run,run.
Find you a better man that will treat you right.
2007-02-19 05:43:40 · answer #6 · answered by crazycul1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you with this guy again????
If he really is the way you have described then please get rid off him now before you get married because a marriage certificate will just make it more difficult to get rid of him later on.
There is someone better out there for you babe so why are you wasting your time with this guy, love only goes so far!!
Good luck xxx
2007-02-19 05:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
runaway and don't look back, all the warning signals are there.
The abuse cycle has already started. Take it from experince it will only get worse your better than that and deserve a really man who'll treat you good.
2007-02-19 05:38:35 · answer #8 · answered by sly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you find someone who actually loves you, this man doesn't, jealousy is a bad thing but no cure as yet. Good Luck
2007-02-22 20:02:31 · answer #9 · answered by decrepid1958 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! I would boot him out so fast, no one needs to put up with this!! If you stay with him, you will have no friends OR family since he will ban you from all of them. You need to get out of this relationship as soon as possible!!!
2007-02-19 05:32:59 · answer #10 · answered by ashizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋