well i love this guy and we were textin and he told me he REALLY REALLY liked ..... so today i texted his friend and said wuts wrong with dylan and he goes nothing he just don like u (I asked him that cuz he was acting sorta strange) ....... and man i was heartbroken cuz ive liked him for the longest time and now i feel in love with !!!!! and i tryed to call him but he want answer !!!!!! so wut should i dooo !!!!!! please HELP me !!!!!!
2007-02-19 05:16:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Although it is true that he does not like you in a 'certain' way and that you are heartbroken, just the fact that he could not muster enough courage to tell you directly means that he likes you in a rather 'different' sort of a way and does not want to hurt your feelings.
There is a high possibility that you misunderstood and/or misinterpreted his 'friendship' to be/as something else. He knows you have a crush on him but is just too nice to downright 'reject' your more-than-just-friendly advances (through either speech or actions).
You can try forever but the fact of the matter is that you can never clap with one hand. It takes two to tango. If the other 'hand' is unwilling to cooperate, just let go.
Do not feel hurt. Do not see it as a 'rejection'. Realise that it was nothing but a wrong choice on your part. A case like this is very similar to meeting your favourite celebrity. The celebrity in question knows you love him/her but that doesn't mean he/she 'must' love you back.
That does disappoint people and they take it as a rejection and that too very personally! But it is impractical to think that way, isn't it? If this is, then that is as well.
2007-02-19 06:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by rohan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell by the way you formed your question that you are too young to be in a serious relationship with someone. Accept the fact that guys are just little chicken sh*ts sometimes and don't have the guts to tell you anything themselves! Move on.
2007-02-19 05:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by startwinkle05 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't call, he'll just think you're crazy. Don't talk to his friends either. He might be afraid of what he said to you, and there is nothing you can do to help him. Leave him alone, and if he means what he said, he'll come to you. Eat chocolate.
2007-02-19 05:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by bored_in_city 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront the guy and ask him in person. If not, move on.
2007-02-19 05:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by Ask 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to grow up!
2007-02-19 05:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him whts wrong with his head
2007-02-19 05:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by ninjagal3000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋