my wife's sister seducing me whenever my wife outside. particularly that three days, i m getting trouble with her. she forced me to make love with her. she is not listening to my advice. What can do?
2007-02-19 05:10:31 · 36 answers · asked by Vijaya Shanthi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Come on.. man.. you know what is right.. what is not..
Are you looking for a voting majority from the audience...
Well.. in that case.. i am sorry a "Big NO"
2007-02-19 05:17:48 · answer #1 · answered by Jai 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to confront your wife's sister in the presents of you wife. You wasn't force to have sex with her you did because you wanted to whether or not you were being seduce by your wife's sister. You could have said no! Turn this scenerio around when if you wife was having sex with your brother, cousin or friend how would that make you feel. If you truly want to savage your marriage come clean telling everything. Yes, your wife is going to be pissed off but at least you were honest with her and you need to gain her love and trust again. Good luck!
2007-02-21 08:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept responsibility for your actions, you weren't "forced" into doing anything; You cheated on your wife and need to accept accountability for that. What you've done is a shameful thing and you nor your wife are going to be able to deal with it if you continue telling yourself you were "forced". Whatever prompting your wife's sister may have done is irrelevant, you are still accountable for your own actions. Through honesty, communication, repentance and forgiveness, your marriage may be saved... But there is of course a legitimate chance things will not survive after this. Good luck.
2007-02-19 05:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by WhooHoo! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be very clear about your relationship with that girl. You should stand straight and make it very clear to her that such a behaviour is not expected from her. Don't go for any advices about moral values because that is useless for her. Threaten her that you will reveal every thing to your wife.Your sis-in law thinks that you are afraid to tell this matter to your wife and she is doing a sort of black mailing to you. Once your wife knows every thing from you(better you tell her first before the sister tells something causing misunderstanding), she will handle it better and will find ways to throw her away from home.Such girls can spoil your family life,because if they don't get what they want ,they will make stories about you which will ultimately end your married life. Take Immediate Action
2007-02-22 21:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by Janaki D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very odd situation for any body to answer, but still you can ask your wife's sister if her husband gets involved in these circumstances and she comes to know what she will do. So you will get the answer to act.
2007-02-19 05:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by prakashvij 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Adultery is one of the most terrible SIN one can commit. Remember Husband and Wife are meant to be one in the eyes of God, let No Man/Women seperate that which God has united.
Fear the wrath of God and be faithful to your wife always. Instead of blaming ur sister u dont give in to your desires. REsist and the devil will flee. God Bless you and give u the wisdom before its too late!!!!
2007-02-19 05:31:52 · answer #6 · answered by vijay r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you need to tell your wife. If you don't you risk the chance of losing your wife. Obviously you won't end up with the sister because she is a heart less *****.
2007-02-23 04:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by I'm learning. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy and keep enjoying as long as it lasts, till your wife finds out. But you are not so naive to realise the consequences of this illicit relationship, the end result of which will definitely shatter the lives of all three of you.
2007-02-19 15:29:39 · answer #8 · answered by Rahul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your sister-inlaw is someone you don't need in the house; she has no morals, and you think she forced you to make love to her? You are being foolish. Tell your wife what happened and don't allow it to happen again.
2007-02-19 05:24:47 · answer #9 · answered by Rev.Denny 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forced you to make love to her????? how did she force you to make love to her? Seems like you are the one who wants to play on the side without being held responsible for it. Otherwise you would have already had a talk with your wife before here sister "forced" you to "make love" to her....
2007-02-19 05:28:30 · answer #10 · answered by jaapevin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've got to have a serious talk with the sister. If she is forcing herself on you , that's sexual harrassment. I've always wondered how a woman can force a man to have sex with her unless she is bigger and stronger , is holding a gun to your head or is blackmailing you. Sorry I don't mean to be insulting as I am sure it happens
2007-02-19 05:21:15 · answer #11 · answered by elflocks62 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋